Dasso Ve Pardesiyo Te Punjab De Vaasiyo!

Panjaban

*~DoAbAn~*
SSA Ji Saareya Nu :d
Main tuhanu ik sawaal karna chaundi haan...

Pardesiyo:
Mera sawal eh ah ke, assin pardesi jehrre duniya de vakh vakh deshaan vich vassde haan, assin punjab shadd ke kion aaye haan? Assin Panjab diyan yaadaan ch athru v vhaunde aan...te saade vichon kai chaunde ne ke kaash assin wapas ja sakiye, uthey rehan vaaste, par fer v assin wapas ni jaande, bass chuttiyan katt ke aa jaande haan. Saanu kai vaari apne punjab vich vassde mittar sajjan, rishtedaar, bhen, bharaa eh taana maar dinde ne jaddon assin pardesaan de ohna kol dukh rohnde aan ke "Leh, fer uthey kion baithe ho, aa jao wapas aithey..." hor pata ni ki ki kehnde ne ke pehllan challe jaande ne te hun rohnde ne...par main socheya ke kion na assin apne wallon ohna nu eh dassan di koshish kariye ke assin aithey kion baithey haan.. jst general tor te, ki vajaa ah ke saade lokk apna des shadd ke, apna ghar baar shaddke apna pind apne rishtedaar apne dost mittar shadd ke urre ikkale aa ke baithe ne...ki saade shounk ne ja majbooriyan ne?

Panjab De Vaasiyo:
Ki tusi kissey kaaran karke "pardesi" hona chaunde o? Kiddan diyan majbooriyan ne ja kion dil karda bahar jaan nu? Tuhanu ki lagda ke ehna pardesiyan nu ki samasseyavan ne jehnaa karke eh bahar jaande ne ja jaana chaunde ne? Ki pardesiyan da dil karda ke oh apna ghar baar shadd ke bahar rehan oh v ikkalle?

Apne apne vichaar jaroor sanjh kareyo ji
Dhanwaad :d
 
apna desh shad k pardesi hon diya bohut hi wajawan ho sakdia..
jina wicho ik hai.. ik badiya life bitaun da sapna... apne lei nhi apni bacchya lei.. ik badiya future....
india wich job milna okha hai.. is lei.. bhi bahar ande a...
kai apni purani zindagi bhulaan nu bahar ande a..
:-? etc...etc..
 
honestly mera the bhut dil karda punjab jaan nu...
main tha lyk bhut lil c wen i came to new zealand and i have neva eva ben bak there i so wanna go....
 

Angel_Eyes

Done Deal !
har kise de diff diff reasons ho sakde aa panjaban, but if we sum it all up then the bigger reason is "FINANCIAL STABILITY". People come here for better opportunities for jobs, to make more money, give their kids a better life and stuff like that. My dad first came here when i was 5-6 yrs old, he did not come here for us. O parhe likhe si india ch, he has double masters, theek thaak job kari jande, mom vi job karde si, o dono job karde rehnde ta ikk middle class family de level te asi as a happy family rehnde india ch. but dad had other responsibilites, he had 4 younger brothers who were in college at that time, who still had to be settled and my dad came here for his family coz india ch job karke o sab nu support nahi kar sakde si. He worked here for years sending money back home so my uncles could finish their studies, get settled, fer ohna de viaah keete. Shayad eh sab easily nahi hunda je dad aithe na aaye hunde. Fer dad aithe si, kinni ku der asi dad to bina india rehnde, we had to be with him and we came here as little kids and no matter how much we miss punjab, we are so used to the system here, our lives have mingled here, we studied here, our jobs are going to be here, we cant afford to go back now. (atleast not in these situations and near future)......eh ta meri kahani si, my dad was here for his reasons and then destiny brought us here and obviously dad looked for better opportunities for us too.....

fer baki loka de apne apne reasons hunde aa, lok apiya kuriya de viah bahr rehnde mundeya naal prefer karde aa , again financial stability, India ch jobs milniya aukhiya hoyiaa payia, lok sochde aa ohna di dhee sukhi rahugi.

And yeah jiven pardesi ne keha kayi lok apna maara past piche chadke sab bhulke apne aap nu ikk nava start den aa jande han bahrle mulka ch, maybe thats a reason too....

kuj lok better jobs layi aunde aa.........

te india rehndeya nu samjh nahi aa sakdi for all the struggles we go thru here unless they come here too and go thru it themselves. othe diya mauja aithe nahi........

i can go on and on but the thing is apniya apniya majbooriya nu lok aunde aa aithe, shaunk vale shayad bahut ghatt honge (i only know one person who came to a foreign country for shaunk)...lol....par punjab vargi gall kite nahi
 

SHauKeeN GaBRu

Chardi Kala
single major reason why we have come abroad or our elders came abroad, to make an EARNING....our parents left India at a time when nothing was happening in India, so settling down in a developing world was a wise decision...

and also some must have left Punjab due to the conditions prevailing in Punjab during the 70's & 80's being not vry good :nerd
 

MAVERICK

Member
Reasons not to live in india:

Quality of education is getting worse day by day....except for some institutes.
Low paying jobs.
Unemployment.
No options for part time jobs etc....moreover jobs like delivering door to door is not considered respectable...
Financial divide....rich are getting richer and poor are getting poorer...and middle class is going nowhere.
Corruption at peak.
Quality of life is poor.
Poor govt policies..like reservations etc.

Why to live in india:

Growth rate is close to 8%....
interest of MNC's in india due to cheap labour and rich people to buy things.
haven for IT firms which are creating new jobs(for educated people :d)
the weather
various diversities...cultural, religional etc.
some things can only happen in india...:p
 
Also jehre chounde aa murke punjab jaana, ohna de niaane ni mannde, oh ithe aavdi padai nu ni chaddna chounde ja fir kei bache india jaana pasand n karde so fir maa pe da dil v ni karda hunda aavde bache shaddan nu...ik eh v reason aa k lok india vapas nahi jande
 
Also jehre chounde aa murke punjab jaana, ohna de niaane ni mannde, oh ithe aavdi padai nu ni chaddna chounde ja fir kei bache india jaana pasand n karde so fir maa pe da dil v ni karda hunda aavde bache shaddan nu...ik eh v reason aa k lok india vapas nahi jande
i agree wth u ae pinky g but bache da dil nahi karda par eh ta parent te depnd karda k oh bache nu kidda teach karde, am i right? tell me ur view:kiven
 

Panjaban

*~DoAbAn~*
Thank you all for sharing your views... :)
Saareya naal sehmat haan...i guess mainly its da financial issue.

Ik sawal hor Pardesiyaan lai...Ki tusi kadee wapas jaan vaare socheya? Ke kadee jaawan ge...shayad budappe vich?
 
saare bache alag aa. like you said (@ Sidney).. eh bohut depend karda aa upbringing te.. kei bache india to aa k bilkul hithe de bann jande aa jaana hi ni chounde murke, te kei bache ithe de ho k v india rhna paand kare aa.. j te nianea nu le ke jand raho fir hi ohna nu pata lagda aa k apne punjab vargi koi reis ni.
 
ik india walean nu hunda aa k sadda munda bahr aa, sadde lei kamauga nd sadi help karuga. so thats another reason y ppl dont go back.. jehre ithe rehnde a oh jaana chounde aa but jehri india ch famly aa oh kehnde aa k paise kamai jo te bheji jo.

personal note te, mera te bohut dil karda a punjab ch rehn nu but again financial issues, mortgage vagera and a very small child..
 

Panjaban

*~DoAbAn~*
Sahi keha ji tusi...bacheya nu apne sabhyachar di sikheya dende ravo taan hee ohna da moh pyar vadoo ga...chahey amrika vich raho chahey punjab vich, ajj kall di jantaa panjab vich hundeya v apne culture apne roots vaare baahla kujh nai jaandi...jaada westernize hunde jaa rahe ne..jo ke barri afsos wali gall hai :n its a shame.
 

MAVERICK

Member
janta de westernize hon da ikk karan bahar leyan diyan chuttiyan vi ne..

jadon koi rishtedaar bahar ton aunda...navan fashion yan trend lai ke aunda...bol chal da dhang, kapde, sab vakhre hi hunde ne...te ithe aali janta ekh ke follow kardi aa...

te jithon takk sabheyachar di gall aa....janta nu punjabi chajj naal nahi aundi hundi..kyon ke ajj kall jamde jawak nu hi greji sikhayi jandi aa...fer mara haal te aape hona...baaki sukh naal TV, internet eh jar vadh rahe ne...
 

Konvicted_Jatt

S@RP@NCH
reason taan ik-do hee main ne ik ja taan higher study in foreign and 2nd money....ah 2 karan karke bahute punjabi punjab chad k aunde ne...jad assi punjab ch hunde haan taan bahar jaan nu dil karda te bahar aa k punjab vapis jaan nu..... ah sab nazaare dooron hee vekhan nu vadiya lagde ne... a pardes taan mithi jail ne... jehra ik vaar fas giya fer nhi nikal sakda.... main v ethe aayia study karn and apne pind de lokan layee kujh karn.... jo main othe reh k nhi kar sakda..... main taan sochiya hoyia jad main apni study khatam kar lavanga taan apne pind vaasiyaan layee kujh karanga.... in my view gurudware nu money donate karn naalo j aapa poor ppl nu ohna diyaan daughter's dee marriage te devaange taan vadiya hovega... and ingh hee kariya karna main taan...
bas ahi mission te aayia main taan.....
 

SinghinEU

Singh Soorma
reason taan ik-do hee main ne ik ja taan higher study in foreign and 2nd money....ah 2 karan karke bahute punjabi punjab chad k aunde ne...jad assi punjab ch hunde haan taan bahar jaan nu dil karda te bahar aa k punjab vapis jaan nu..... ah sab nazaare dooron hee vekhan nu vadiya lagde ne... a pardes taan mithi jail ne... jehra ik vaar fas giya fer nhi nikal sakda.... main v ethe aayia study karn and apne pind de lokan layee kujh karn.... jo main othe reh k nhi kar sakda..... main taan sochiya hoyia jad main apni study khatam kar lavanga taan apne pind vaasiyaan layee kujh karanga.... in my view gurudware nu money donate karn naalo j aapa poor ppl nu ohna diyaan daughter's dee marriage te devaange taan vadiya hovega... and ingh hee kariya karna main taan...
bas ahi mission te aayia main taan.....
Mere Dil di gal kiti KJ ne. Bahaut changa laga. Main bhi jyada Self-centered nahin haan. I too want to raise-up our community by doing some noble work like setting up good technical education in Punjab. Helping the poor. (Like KJ ne keha - to donate to some needy.) Helping the needy to study, when he/she cannot fund his/her education and so forth.

I ll share more a bit later...
 
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