Something i wanted to share

[SherDil™]

SD apni apni soch hai, par kayi vari jo supne vich dekhi da oh sahi hunda. Mera matlab, koi rooh sachi aake mil sakdi. Mere kise jaan pechaan de vich ehda di gaal ho hatti.

veere tu fer meriya Posta tiyaan naal nahi pariya .main ta aap keh chuka ke no doubt ajj kal de jamane vich etha nahi hunda.par purane te siyane loki jo kehnde ohvi galat nahi kehnde .meri is gal da matlab aahi aa ke sachi ruha mildiya.

 

[SherDil™]

ih sirf thude naal hee nahi hoyia​

Lai bhene hun tusi kyon sad hunde
chalo koi na aapne dil da bhaar hola karlo tusi vi.

 

[pink puma]

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ih sirf thude naal hee nahi hoyia​

i agree. Raman, its really sad what happened and i am so sorry for that lekhan we cant blame God for everything and i know it seems really unfair but let me just say that behind every pair of eyes there is a story. a story that would bring tears to the one who learns it. a story that you never thought lived inside of that person. Jinna marzi oh banda ek acha insaan hove, we are bound to get a bit of bad and a bit of good in life. nothing will be perfect and life is definetly not always fair.

I know vi you had a very special relationship with your chacha ji and its not fair you didnt get to see him before he departed, but i think you should feel positive that you both made life for each other worth living. sometimes ki hunda vi nobody cares about a person, they fight over something stupid and never get to apologize or tell them how much they loved them and then that person goes. fer the others are left crying and feeling guilt their entire lives. So lets be happy that you gave much love to your uncle and that you made him feel special for the time he did have to spend with you.

Assi saariya neh taan ek din chaale janna, nothing is forever sweety but remain positive and hopeful and if we treat every person as if it were the last time we were going to see them, then it truly changes your life.

we are here for you

 

[SherDil™]

Par chote hundeya bahut chote hundeya mere chacha ji di vi death ho gayi si, and mainu ajj takk ohna di aini ku kami mehsoos hundi aa ki dass nahi sakdi, Jadd vi mere naal kuj hunda ta main hamesha ehi sochdi ki je o hunde ta shayad life eda na hundi, mere chacha ji saari duniya naal lar jande mere layi.
, so u can pretty much imagine ki kinni close hovangi main vi ohna de. Raman tera dukh main sajh sakdi aa laado, par rabb di honi nu koi nahi rok sakda, te rabb de agge kise da jor vi nahi, ohda bhana mitha karke mannana painda hai. mere chacha ji ta shayad 24-25 saal de hi si, Par tusi raje rabb to apna yakeen na uthao, rabb diya hor kinniya rehmata ne jinna da shukar kariye lakh lakh vaar ta vi ghatt hai, sohne veer, sohne mummy papa ditte rabb ne, haina?

te tuhade supne vaali gall ohda vi jawab dau main, aah par lao pehla, post already bahut lambi ho gayi

, sad nahi hona tusi ta bahut good bacha o.

Bhabo tusi bahut changiya galla kitiya te tusi khush hoyoge ke main vi hun seriously poori post parda hunda.te tuhadi post pari vadhiya galla kitiya taahi main tuhanu kiha si kyonki mainu pata tusi bahut vadhiya tareeke naal gall samja sakde.thankju ji ethe darshan deke aapne views den da.baki supne wali gal da mainu vi intzaar hai cheti aan deyo.

 

[SHauKeeN GaBRu]

ih sirf thude naal hee nahi hoyia​

 

[Panjaban]

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ih sirf thude naal hee nahi hoyia​

Haanji sis i've realized dat kisse nu sherr ke dekho taa pata lagda koi kinna ko sukhi hai. but dont cry yaar

 

[Panjaban]

Whoa sis this is too crazy. Sachi bahut he strange lagda appa kinniya cheeja share karde haa te hun ah ik dukh vi. (kaash eh dukh saanu kise nu v na milleya hunda)
Mainu bahut dukh hoiya eh sunnke, ke tuhade chacha ji di umar taa bahut he choti c. im so sorry.
Nai sis sad taa ki hona, as it is well said "Tera bhaana mittha lage" jo haiga soh haiga, bass kall dil kitta apne dukh foullan da te bahut changa laga ke tusi saareya ne response ditta mainu apna samajh ke, nai te ajj kall kon kise di sunnda? thank u so much.

Raman ki kaha hun, bahut strange aa........asi dono NY to, dono Colorado ch, Dono same high school ch pariya....te shayad rabb ne dona nu dukh vi ikko ditta, sach manni zondagi ch main vi apne sab to close chacha ji gawa chukki haan, par shayad tuhade to bahut pehla. Main vi 1997 ch hi US ch aayi si. Par chote hundeya bahut chote hundeya mere chacha ji di vi death ho gayi si, and mainu ajj takk ohna di aini ku kami mehsoos hundi aa ki dass nahi sakdi, Jadd vi mere naal kuj hunda ta main hamesha ehi sochdi ki je o hunde ta shayad life eda na hundi, mere chacha ji saari duniya naal lar jande mere layi.
he was very close to me too, mainu apne moddeya te chukk ke roj saare pind da chakkar kadd de hunde si, te ikk ikk bande kole ruk ke kehna chall putt ssa bula bajurga nu. Main hosh ohna de hatha ch sambhali si, so u can pretty much imagine ki kinni close hovangi main vi ohna de. Raman tera dukh main sajh sakdi aa laado, par rabb di honi nu koi nahi rok sakda, te rabb de agge kise da jor vi nahi, ohda bhana mitha karke mannana painda hai. Te naale baani ch likheya "jo aaya so chalsi amar so gur kartaar, bhi sacha salahna sache thaan pyar" ....matlab, jo aaya ohne chale hi jaana hai, ehi kudrat da asool hai, sirf guru te saanu banaun vaala hi amar hai, te us sache waheguru nu hi pyar karna chahida hai, kyonki akhir sab kuj da karta ohi hai. I know dukh hunda hai, mere chacha ji ta shayad 24-25 saal de hi si, te jaana ta har kise ne hunda par aini choti umar ch duniya vi nahi dekhi hundi halle, te rabb apne kole bula lainda. Par tusi raje rabb to apna yakeen na uthao, rabb diya hor kinniya rehmata ne jinna da shukar kariye lakh lakh vaar ta vi ghatt hai, sohne veer, sohne mummy papa ditte rabb ne, haina? bass ohde agge ardaas karo ki chacha ji di rooh nu shanti bakhshan te baaki de jiya nu piche himmat te haunsla ki. Eh shikva ta hamesha dil ch rehna ki ikk akhri vaar mil ta lainde, par jo usnu manjoor usde agge kise di nahi chaldi. Tusi udaas na hovo, waheguru da naam lao te apna bhrosa dolan na dao.

te tuhade supne vaali gall ohda vi jawab dau main, aah par lao pehla, post already bahut lambi ho gayi

, sad nahi hona tusi ta bahut good bacha o.

 

[Panjaban]

Hi pinks, tusi eh gall taa sach he kahi ke assi ouss person naal channga bond banaiya hoya c apni zindagi vich, te hun pashtawa ni haiga kise v gall da.
Te tuhadi salaah bahut hee kaim hai, har ik person nu aidda millo as if it was for the last time, dats so true. thnks sis. i really appreciate ke saareya ne response kitta, unp te aah ke apne pan da ehsaas hoya. im really likin it here. thank u saareya da.

i agree. Raman, its really sad what happened and i am so sorry for that lekhan we cant blame God for everything and i know it seems really unfair but let me just say that behind every pair of eyes there is a story. a story that would bring tears to the one who learns it. a story that you never thought lived inside of that person. Jinna marzi oh banda ek acha insaan hove, we are bound to get a bit of bad and a bit of good in life. nothing will be perfect and life is definetly not always fair.

I know vi you had a very special relationship with your chacha ji and its not fair you didnt get to see him before he departed, but i think you should feel positive that you both made life for each other worth living. sometimes ki hunda vi nobody cares about a person, they fight over something stupid and never get to apologize or tell them how much they loved them and then that person goes. fer the others are left crying and feeling guilt their entire lives. So lets be happy that you gave much love to your uncle and that you made him feel special for the time he did have to spend with you.

Assi saariya neh taan ek din chaale janna, nothing is forever sweety but remain positive and hopeful and if we treat every person as if it were the last time we were going to see them, then it truly changes your life.

we are here for you

 

[Panjaban]

Tuhade saareya diya suggestions paarr ke mainu kuch sikhan nu milleya, i feel calm and relieved it really helped me get out of the thinking of whatever i said bout what i felt God is. Thanku so much you all.
Baaki diyaan gallan, housla rakhna and bharosa rakhna.. eh sabh main v kadi kise nu khaiyaan hon giya par jado apne te beeti, mind bass blank ho gya, sabh kujh gallat he lagda c, waheguru ji te jehrra yakeen c oh dubb da najar aunda c. Par hun ik vaar fer oh yakeen nu dobara banaava gi, and i'll try to follow all you guys' suggestions. thank u all.

Raman,

Apne bas kuch nahi hai. Apaan aounde is duniya utte baad vich, par apna maran da sama te patta dhuro pahela hi likheya hunda. Har, ik-ik dana pani da hisaab baneya hai. Te bas ehda ik hisaab hunda, ke apaan kidde naal milna te bartna kis time te. Ehi tan zindagi hei. Apaan sochde han ki, te ho janda hai ki. Lakh pathi tu khak pathi ban jande han. Himmat rakhni, sab ous malak da khed hai. Bharosa bilkul nahi harna, te nahi kade kehna ke waheguru hai nahi, ja naraaz hai! Eh sab imthian diyaan ghariyan hun. Guru pareeksha lenda hai, ke mera pyara sachi dilaun pyar karda meinoo, ja bas uparoo dikhavat hai. Apaan kar kuch nahi sakda, bina ous malak de agge ardaas karan tu. Mein ardaas karda, ke he sache paatshaah deen dhyaal satguru rehtmataan karo meharvaan pita. Sab nu apna bhaana manan di shaktiyan baksho, apne niggi charan vich jaggo baksho atthe sukh shaantiyaan, tundrastiyaan diyaan kirpa karo.

Guru nu kade na bhulayi Raman. Guru tu bina sab kuch, sab rishtey is duniya te choote hun.

dj

 

[Panjaban]

Haanji i strongly agree, ah pardes pehlla pehlla changa lagda, par bass kamm kaar lai, aitehey apneya da sukh ni millda. Par majboori naal aithey rehna painda, ik taraa keh lo ke eh Mitthi jail hai. Majboori is da word, baaki jo apne lekha vich haiga ohi millda.
Tuhade naal jehra incident hoiya, wow deep thinking SG. Define karna painda te learn karna chahida apne experiences ton, like u said, eh sign c tuhanu baba ji wallo.
thanks for sharing, i've really learned sumthin.

aehi te probm hai pardesan vich rehn di, and this is faced my most of us
whtevr happend with u was really sad
but Waheguru ton kade vishvas nahi chukna chahida...kadi kadi aedaan lagda ke assi Babaji nu bahut mande haan, par sadde vaste aenna kuchh nahi karde, but fer bad chon sochi da ke jinna assi karida hai bahut katt hai...sannu hor karna chahida...
hun main apni gaddi di dashboard te Guru Nanak devji di foto rakhi hoyi hai, gaddi start karan ton pehlan har vaari matha tek daan, mere 2-3 waari accident hon ton bache, ik haje kal masaan bacheya, gaddi di break nahi c lagdi, inch da gap reh gaya agli car de naal, fer bad chon aehi sochi da ke this was a sign given to me by Babaji to drive more cautiously...many a times i get swayed away, par Waheguru ton kade vishwas nahi utheya paven kuchh vi hojaye...

 

[Panjaban]

That is true, sach hai ke je mill lainde ohna nu taa vicharrna hor aoukha hona c... i hav no words, shayad ehi sahi hai. Sahi te sachi gall jehri jaree ni jaandi.

kudrat de rang niyare ...usdiya ohi jaane..

bt i believe in one thing evrythin happens for our own gud..hun tusi puchunge k j asin chacha ji nu mil ni paaye ta is ch ki good hai.. well maybe j tusi una nu mil lende shayad fer una lai jaana hor aukha ho jana c.. it mite wud have been much more hard for his soul to leave... oh v thonu ina love karde c taaa una lai kina aukha hona c apne pyaare bche nu chadke jaana..

philosphy meri.. bt dukhi hoke apne aap nu hor sad na fel karao.. j chacha ji hunde taan he wud have never wanted u to b s sad.. sad dekhde taa o v sad hunde.. so atleast una layi hi sahi stop being sad ..

 

[Angel_Eyes]

Whoa sis this is too crazy. Sachi bahut he strange lagda appa kinniya cheeja share karde haa te hun ah ik dukh vi. (kaash eh dukh saanu kise nu v na milleya hunda)
Mainu bahut dukh hoiya eh sunnke, ke tuhade chacha ji di umar taa bahut he choti c. im so sorry.
Nai sis sad taa ki hona, as it is well said "Tera bhaana mittha lage" jo haiga soh haiga, bass kall dil kitta apne dukh foullan da te bahut changa laga ke tusi saareya ne response ditta mainu apna samajh ke, nai te ajj kall kon kise di sunnda? thank u so much.

lai eda kidda, jado sis keh ditta ta fer sis thru thin and thick..........te main te tainu labhdi aayi aa ajj UNIveristy of denver at denver (DU) de campus te..........hehehe, i was around there all da today, te tuhade thorton parkway da exit vi tappeya si........i was right on univeristy Blvd actually.......je labh jandi te main ta othe hi japhi paa laini si.......

 

[Gabru_Gulab_Varga]

awwww...that's so nice angelooo!

 

[Panjaban]

lai eda kidda, jado sis keh ditta ta fer sis thru thin and thick..........te main te tainu labhdi aayi aa ajj UNIveristy of denver at denver (DU) de campus te..........hehehe, i was around there all da today, te tuhade thorton parkway da exit vi tappeya si........i was right on univeristy Blvd actually.......je labh jandi te main ta othe hi japhi paa laini si.......

SACHI? Lai, Tuhade khyaal vich main exit te jhanda leh ke kharri c "hi im raman"? lol
Yaar dass dinde email kar ke ja kujh, we really cud hav met. omg.. i cant believe assi ah ikko shehar vich rehnde haa.
btw i was at work today, univ bass mon. te wed. jaandi haa

 

[Pardesan Punjaban]

Haanji sis i've realized dat kisse nu sherr ke dekho taa pata lagda koi kinna ko sukhi hai. but dont cry yaar

i hardly cry
per ur post were so touchi
kee meria eyes wet ho gayhia

mainu vi kujh remind ho gia
omg
sachi​

 

[Angel_Eyes]

SACHI? Lai, Tuhade khyaal vich main exit te jhanda leh ke kharri c "hi im raman"? lol
Yaar dass dinde email kar ke ja kujh, we really cud hav met. omg.. i cant believe assi ah ikko shehar vich rehnde haa.
btw i was at work today, univ bass mon. te wed. jaandi haa

o hooo mera matbal si ki jado main o exit tappeya ta main awdi frnd nu keha, main keha raman aithe kite rehndi honi aa...........hehehe

chalo je waheguru ne likheya hoya ta jarur milange soon.

 

[Panjaban]

i hardly cry

per ur post were so touchi
kee meria eyes wet ho gayhia​

mainu vi kujh remind ho gia
omg

sachi​

awww.. sis main v sochdi c k main apne dukh de naal naal baaki saareya de dukh v taaja kar ditte.
par aithey apne dukh saanjhey kar ke dil nu sakoon millda, dil da bhaar hallka hunda, te mann da bahujj, isse karke i shared somethin wid u all.

 

[Angel_Eyes]

awww.. sis main v sochdi c k main apne dukh de naal naal baaki saareya de dukh v taaja kar ditte.
par aithey apne dukh saanjhey kar ke dil nu sakoon millda, dil da bhaar hallka hunda, te mann da bahujj, isse karke i shared somethin wid u all.

Raman kuj der baad unp ghar vaang feel honi shuru ho jandi hai, u are nto gonna beleive how sweet everyone is here, and i have known these beautiful souls for almost past 3 yrs now. te bina kise jhijhak de koi vi gall hove kar laya karo, and if there's anything u cant share her in public, yahoo is always welcome darling.
UNP is like a family and we are always here for each other, everyone has their days and thats wat we are here for to comfort each other in days like these. Dil haula ho jaave, dil to bojh lath jaave gall karke kise naal, te kise nu aina mauka de sakiye ki koi gall karan de kabil samjhda saanu, i feel that the best deed of the day and purpose of the day done.

 

[Panjaban]

o hooo mera matbal si ki jado main o exit tappeya ta main awdi frnd nu keha, main keha raman aithe kite rehndi honi aa...........hehehe

chalo je waheguru ne likheya hoya ta jarur milange soon.

OH accha ji main socheya tusi mainu oh thronton parkway wale exit te labh rahe c. lol just kidding.
haanji sis we'll meet up sumtime soon. Jaroor milla ge.

 

[Panjaban]

Bass fer sis taa hee taan aitehy dere laye ah main, saara saara din aithey nikkal jaanda. bahut hee adictive ghar ah eh tuhada. and i luv it.

Raman kuj der baad unp ghar vaang feel honi shuru ho jandi hai, u are nto gonna beleive how sweet everyone is here, and i have known these beautiful souls for almost past 3 yrs now. te bina kise jhijhak de koi vi gall hove kar laya karo, and if there's anything u cant share her in public, yahoo is always welcome darling.
UNP is like a family and we are always here for each other, everyone has their days and thats wat we are here for to comfort each other in days like these. Dil haula ho jaave, dil to bojh lath jaave gall karke kise naal, te kise nu aina mauka de sakiye ki koi gall karan de kabil samjhda saanu, i feel that the best deed of the day and purpose of the day done.