why do we love........

Kav

Kav

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Ajeeb_Praani said:
who doesnt want to be loved in return

u might not get love in return .. but u might still keep on loving .. but tht doesnt mean u r happy ... u r hurt and sad that u cant gt ur love yet u might be happy that ur love is happy
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We aren't defining happiness we are defining love........

Ajeeb_Praani said:
but the world ur life is about U ... :sleepy

ki fayeda ehoje love da ... ik sided chahat da ? theek ae fayede ni labhne chaheede par aapna dil jaroor royega ke the other person does not love u



kinda difficult gettin my pt across .. :nail
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Kudiye........ love fayda nuksaan nahin vekhda........... You want to give everything you have to thye person you love.......... and u just want to see hin/her happy..........
 
Kav

Kav

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Ajeeb_Praani said:
aah possessiveness hoyi ? :roll :roll :roll :roll :roll

main taan kuch hor meaning parreya si es words da dictionary'ch :nail

love may at a point be unconditional but then such a love is not long-lived :nail :nail :nail
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Love is unconditional............ not a relationship.............. but if you are lucky............ you will be loved by the person you love the most...........
 
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Kav said:
Love is unconditional............ not a relationship.............. but if you are lucky............ you will be loved by the person you love the most...........
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i assume the topic starter is talking about the love in a relation :nail


par unconditional kihni der tak reh sakda ?

nope i think love=unconditional is not always the case :nail

or well let's just say different perspectives clash :kik
 
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Kav said:
Very true........... and its just one of those things.......... where we have an ideal situation and a personalised defination............of what u want in love...........:chew
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exactly :y


but if we come from the ideal to the real things change ... for ideal is for perfect people :chew


:kik
 
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Getaway

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Love?
The world's great wisdom traditions say that love is the ultimate reality of existence. In human romantic relationships, the more we strive to reflect that divine, universal love, the more harmony and freedom we will have with our partner. Real love has no agendas, no attachments, no ideas, no demands, and no conditions. These are all things we add to the experience of love, which begin to contaminate our love, and which also begin to confuse us about what love is. Real, uncontaminated love has one simple agenda: to love!
Our minds can talk about love, but they can't actually experience love. Love can only be experienced through feeling. Many times we confuse the experience of love with the word or idea of love. You can say the words "I love you," and not be feeling love. You can also feel love when you think you can't or shouldn't.
True love of another human being is wanting what is best for them even if that's not you. Our idea of what is best for them and what is truly best for them may be different.
Real love can't be used as a "bargaining chip." (Example: "I will love you if you promise to never leave or hurt me.") Bargaining and other forms of manipulation begin to contaminate our love for another human being.

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Niki_Grewal

Niki_Grewal

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Lets be a bit more realisitic about this real love.......aina upar kithon uthh hunda....ke eh soch laye ke i want best for my lover....even if it means someone else (quoted from "Getaway's post)....reality ch aapan ehi sochida....ke i am the best choice for him or her:roll ......je kite kade eh vi laggya hou kise nu ke main layak nahi ,....mainu taan waise nahi lagda:roll mera over confidence:roll .....taanvi kade nahi kehnda ke main taan layak nahi,,,,rabba koi hor layak de de uss nu....te mere ton ohnu kho lai:kuto ...udhan waddiyan waddhiyan gallan karan ch' ki hai......je 100% kerke dikhave taan hai na.....te mainu nahi lagda koi kerda hona idhan....aaapan je 100% den ch vishvaas rakhde aan taan return ch 100 na sahi 80% ton bina gujara nahi hunda:roll (its another thing tht even if i ll get zero % taanvi pyaar nahi marda,,,,,na less hunda.....per i am sorry to say dil jalda fer har kise da kise na kise mod te jaake)....lol....mera contaminated love:roll ....kasar sochi di ke kade chhaddi nahi dunya bhar di real love bannaan di......reh fer vi contaminated hi gaya:roll :roll :roll :roll :roll
 
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Niki_Grewal said:
Lets be a bit more realisitic about this real love.......aina upar kithon uthh hunda....ke eh soch laye ke i want best for my lover....even if it means someone else (quoted from "Getaway's post)....reality ch aapan ehi sochida....ke i am the best choice for him or her:roll ......je kite kade eh vi laggya hou kise nu ke main layak nahi ,....mainu taan waise nahi lagda:roll mera over confidence:roll .....taanvi kade nahi kehnda ke main taan layak nahi,,,,rabba koi hor layak de de uss nu....te mere ton ohnu kho lai:kuto ...udhan waddiyan waddhiyan gallan karan ch' ki hai......je 100% kerke dikhave taan hai na.....te mainu nahi lagda koi kerda hona idhan....aaapan je 100% den ch vishvaas rakhde aan taan return ch 100 na sahi 80% ton bina gujara nahi hunda:roll (its another thing tht even if i ll get zero % taanvi pyaar nahi marda,,,,,na less hunda.....per i am sorry to say dil jalda fer har kise da kise na kise mod te jaake)....lol....mera contaminated love:roll ....kasar sochi di ke kade chhaddi nahi dunya bhar di real love bannaan di......reh fer vi contaminated hi gaya:roll :roll :roll :roll :roll
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aha saade warge sample kar chukke aa :roll :roll :roll
 
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Some1

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Niki_Grewal said:
je 100% kerke dikhave taan hai na.....te mainu nahi lagda koi kerda hona idhan....aaapan je 100% den ch vishvaas rakhde aan taan return ch 100 na sahi 80% ton bina gujara nahi hunda:roll (its another thing tht even if i ll get zero % taanvi pyaar nahi marda,,,,,na less hunda.....per i am sorry to say dil jalda fer har kise da kise na kise mod te jaake)....lol....mera contaminated love:roll ....kasar sochi di ke kade chhaddi nahi dunya bhar di real love bannaan di......reh fer vi contaminated hi gaya:roll :roll :roll :roll :roll
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expectations meriyaan taan 100% ton uppar ii hundiyaan :nail ghat rakho exp. khush raho .. par saliyaan ghatdiyaan ii ni :roll :roll :roll :roll :roll

zero% te pyaar marru ni par marran aali road te paina jaroo shuru hoju :nail

aseen ni kasht kareeda ideal banaun di love noon :bhajo
 
Niki_Grewal

Niki_Grewal

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kerke pachhtaa vi chuke ne fer.....dil jala vi chukke ne,,,,,mere kehan da matlab si khush taan nahi reh sakde fer vi :(
 
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