puma u r right at ur point of view but still u said independence would u really think indian marrage gives as freedom...
As u describe in ur councelling that never found that somebody doing for u this or that..no assayennnnnnnn.... yaaaaaa...
n waht u told that also right or more right in live-in also....
so what would u like to say....
i know marrage is good but its only if u find sm1 that really good... n when time goes u find he/she not suitable for u every n each relation when 1 person goes on another goes down...
In near my house 1 old age house n i am use to go there... i found person who not accept from his family he is more happier nnn live his life like crazy he can smile....
I really think marrage is the thing where person cant grow up bcoz if i m grown-up n my fiance not put herself where she has to be she will be depressed or i have to put myself low... interms of everything....
just think... guys n gals.....