tomarnidhi
Well-known member
#1 sign your relationship is doomed from the start: When she begins to make big sweeping changes in her habits and/or appearance, the relationship is doomed. This is the first sign that he is asking or pressing her to make changes in who she was before they met..
#2 sign your relationship is doomed from the start: If your new relationship is with someone you"stole" from someone else, your relationship is doomed. If you can "steal" him, someone else can steal them from you just as easily.
#3 sign that your relationship is doomed from the start: If he had a problem with you using 'long words' or sophisticated words, walk away. If he tries to dissuade you from getting an education, run way. He is insecure about his own intelligence and will never be able to support you in yours.
#4 sign that your relationship is doomed from the start: If he doesn't like your girfriends then your relationship is likely doomed. Your girlfriends are a big part of who you are, and if he doesn't like them, then he doesn't like a part of who you are. Get someone who can enjoy your girlfriends even if they make him a little uncomfortable.
#5 sign your relationship is doomed from the start: If he gets along too well with your girlfriends, this may also be a problem. Watch out for a guy who is too buddy=buddy with your girfriends as these are the persons he will be most likely to cheat on you with.
#6 sign your relationship is doomed from the start: He doesn't like or respect your parents. Unless you have told him a horrible secret about your parents he needs to love them almost as much as he loves you. At the very least, he has to be grateful that they raised you and show them respect for that reason.
#7 sign your relationship is doomed from the start: He doesn't like or respect his own parents, most specifically his mother. In the end, he will treat you as well as he treats his mother. If you don't like the way he treats her, you won't like the way he speaks to you when he gets comfortable with you.
#8 sign your relationship is doomed from the start: He is too close to his parents, most specifically his mother. While he should love and respect his mother, she should not still be acting like her little boy. If he does, he will expect you to start pampering him too and competing with his mother for attention. This can only get ugly.
#9 sign your relationship is doomed from the start: You date him or her just for fun or to avoid being alone. These dates can turn into long relationships that you may be willing to chew your arm off to get out of. Don't go out with someone for the convenience of it but because you have a genuine interest in them.
#10 sign your relationship is doomed from the start: He has mantrums. A man who is not mature enough to react calmly when things go his way, is not worth your time. A mantrum (or man=tantrum) signals that you are dealing with someone with the emotional maturity of a five year old, it is best to avoid the stress.
