why v r born?wht z better to do something for humanity sacrificing own pleasures and security or getting married to hav a secure life?
why v r born?.... v r fruits of love between our parents. they must have went through sleepless nights to keep us in good health while we were kids. Its our time to payback.
I don't think one has to sacrifice his pleasures to do something for humanity. Pleasure is very vague term, one can get pleased by getting drunk or by making someone smile.
One can be married and humanitarian at same time. All Gurus excluding Guru Harkrishan Sahib ji were married and did tons of work for humanity.
Don't be confuse, enjoy the wonderful life which is full of family, friends and beautiful nature. Be good and do good to others.
I hope, I make some sense.