Mandeep Kaur Guraya
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Hi Everyone,
I would like to share a good news,last month I got married.Us time main iniyan sariyan rasma hundiyan vekhiyan te bahut sariyan khud v perform kitiyan.I would love to share this with all of you.
VIAH TON PAHLAN :
Bhocha torna : Viah di sab ton pahli rasam shuru hoyee bhocha toran ton. Bhocha torna means ladki di family formally ladke di family nu viah te invite kardi hai.... jisda matlab hunda hai ki aj ton hun tusi v viah diyan sariyan tyaariyan shuru kar deyo.Bhoche vich ladke de
ghar gandh chithi(formal inviation), a lot of dry fruits,mishri, vichole vicholan de kapde, mithaeee etc. bhejeya janda hai.
Daaj de kapde bnana : bhocha toran ton baad viah diya baaki tyariyan shuru ho jandiyan ne.Us ton baad ghar de saare jee ikatthe hoke kudi Suits di shopping karan jande ne. jo kapde ladki apne gharo laindi hai ohna nu daaj te jo ladke ghoron aunde ne ohna nu Wari kahnde ne.
Daaj de suits di ginti 7, 9 , 11 , 13 ya 15 ho sakdi hai(same for Wari)
Saureyan ton shagun auna : fir vicholan ladke waleyan de gharon ladki layee shagun laike aundi hai. Shagun vich ladki layee kujh suits(that is part of Wari), make up kit, mahndi, mishri, dry fruits, makhane, ladke di puggdi, fulkari, kudi de veer da joda,shagne paun layee laal ribbon,gold set etc. smaan hunda hai.
Shagne pauna : Fir ik din pind(village) vich sab nu sdda bhejeya janda hai ki aj kudi nu shagne pauna hai.Pind diya aurta thaliyaan vich kanak ya munji(jeeri) pake leaundiyan ne.jo shagun di rasam ton baad pind di painchni(raani) laike jandi hai.Fir kudi nu ik lakdi di fatti (patra) te saje pair di tali heth kujh paise rakhke bithaya janda hai. Shagun de smaan
chon kangi te ribbon laike usdiyan midiyaan karke gutt kiti jandi hai. Kudi nu shagun ch aya make up da smaan laya janda hai.usnu shaugun wale gahne pake us te fulkaari diti jandi hai.Fir bharjayian usde hath te thodi mahndi lake usdi jholi kujh mitha(badaana, te mishri etc.) paundiyan ne te usda muh mitha karwaundiyan ne. Usde muh chuhara lagwake usnu fatti to utha leya janda hai.Maneyan jandahai ki usda jootha eh chuhara jo v khayega usda viah v chheti hi ho jayega.Pind diyan aurtaan nu ohna diyan thaliyan ch badaana te shagun ch aaya
dry fruit, mishri, makhane etc pake dite jande ne. Kudi diyan saheliyan nu thuthi(half coconut) ch eh sab paake dita janda hai.Fir kudi jholi peya smaan sab nu vand-di hai.
mayian pauna : fir next day or same day, mayian di rasam hundi hai. Fir kudi nu lakad di fatti te saje pair thale paise rakhke bithaya janda hai. Shagun wele kitiayan midiyan te gutt kholke ajj dobara usdi gutt kiti jandi hai. bhabhiyan usnu changi traan vesan da vatna
maldiyan ne. fir ik bhabhi kudi nu shagna da gaana ban-di hai.eh gaana viah ton agle din munda kholda hai. kudi di jholi vich hun ghunghniyan(ubaali hoyee kanak) te gud paya janda hai. Usda muh is naal mitha karwake usnu fatti ton utha leya janda hai.Fir kudi jholi peya smaan sab nu vand-di hai.
mahndi lagwana : viah ton ik do din pahlan kudi de shagun ch aayee mahndi gholi jandi hai. Fir kise mahndi laan wali nu bula ke ohh mahndi kudi nu te baaki sab saheliyan te rishtedaara nu layee jandi hai.(Ajkal kudiyan us mahndi da sirf shagun kardiyan ne, te khud
mahndi beautition ton hi lagwake aundiyan ne )
Choorha(or chooda) chadaana : viah ton pahli raat ya fir swere khaare(bath) chadaan ton pahlan kudi nu maame walon Choorha(or chooda) chadaya janda hai.Kudi da mama Choorha(or chooda) laike aunda hai. ik praat vich kachi lassi (mix water and milk) pake us 'ch Choorha
(or chooda) dhoke, maama 5 5 churiyan karke kudi de dove hathi Choorha(or chooda) paunda hai.Choorha(or chooda) chadake maama bhanevi nu kujh na kujh shagun paunda hai.
Khaare chadaana : Choorha(or chooda) chadaun ton baad khaare chaadaan di rasam hundi
hai.khare chadaana means nvaana (or ishnaan karwana).Kudi nu ik fatti te bithaya janda hai. kudi diyan bharjayian us nu vatna lake, usde sir vich dahi paake , usnu changi tran nvaandiyan ne. Fir kudi navaa suit paake tyar hoke use fatti te khadi ho jandi hai. Kudi udon tak us fatti ton niche nahi utardi jadon tak maama usnu kujh shagun ya gift de ke khud uthon utaar ke na laike aave. Fir maama bhanevi nu kujh shagun de ke chuk ke fatti ton niche utaarda hai.
Munde nu shagun laan jaana : Viah ton ik din pahlan kudi de ghar wale munde nu shagun laan jande ne. Kudi de pita ji munde te usde saare parivaar layee kujh bhetaan laike jande ne. Uthe munde nu sindoor da tilak lake usdi jholi goom(coconut)te shagun da baaki smaan pake rasam poori kiti jandi hai.
Jaago kadni : viah ton ik din pahlaan kudi diyan maamiyan jago kad-diyan ne. Pital di ik gagar nu aate de dive bnake badi achhi tran sjaya janda hai.fir maamiyan saare dive baal ke dadkiyan te hor rishtedaara nu naal laike jago kad-diyan ne. Is doraan nankiyan te daadkiyan
ch ik mithi ji nok jhok chaldi hai. Jaago nu jaan pahchaan de sare gharaan ch lai jaya janda hai. Ghar wale jaago ch tel paande ne te jaago leaun waleyan nu gidha paun layee kahnde ne.jago wale jinna jinna de ghar jande ne ohna de paani wale parche te kachiyan chullaan bhanke aunde ne.fir last ch ik chhajj bhan ke jago vapis ghar laiaundi jaandi hai.
I would like to share a good news,last month I got married.Us time main iniyan sariyan rasma hundiyan vekhiyan te bahut sariyan khud v perform kitiyan.I would love to share this with all of you.
VIAH TON PAHLAN :
Bhocha torna : Viah di sab ton pahli rasam shuru hoyee bhocha toran ton. Bhocha torna means ladki di family formally ladke di family nu viah te invite kardi hai.... jisda matlab hunda hai ki aj ton hun tusi v viah diyan sariyan tyaariyan shuru kar deyo.Bhoche vich ladke de
ghar gandh chithi(formal inviation), a lot of dry fruits,mishri, vichole vicholan de kapde, mithaeee etc. bhejeya janda hai.
Daaj de kapde bnana : bhocha toran ton baad viah diya baaki tyariyan shuru ho jandiyan ne.Us ton baad ghar de saare jee ikatthe hoke kudi Suits di shopping karan jande ne. jo kapde ladki apne gharo laindi hai ohna nu daaj te jo ladke ghoron aunde ne ohna nu Wari kahnde ne.
Daaj de suits di ginti 7, 9 , 11 , 13 ya 15 ho sakdi hai(same for Wari)
Saureyan ton shagun auna : fir vicholan ladke waleyan de gharon ladki layee shagun laike aundi hai. Shagun vich ladki layee kujh suits(that is part of Wari), make up kit, mahndi, mishri, dry fruits, makhane, ladke di puggdi, fulkari, kudi de veer da joda,shagne paun layee laal ribbon,gold set etc. smaan hunda hai.
Shagne pauna : Fir ik din pind(village) vich sab nu sdda bhejeya janda hai ki aj kudi nu shagne pauna hai.Pind diya aurta thaliyaan vich kanak ya munji(jeeri) pake leaundiyan ne.jo shagun di rasam ton baad pind di painchni(raani) laike jandi hai.Fir kudi nu ik lakdi di fatti (patra) te saje pair di tali heth kujh paise rakhke bithaya janda hai. Shagun de smaan
chon kangi te ribbon laike usdiyan midiyaan karke gutt kiti jandi hai. Kudi nu shagun ch aya make up da smaan laya janda hai.usnu shaugun wale gahne pake us te fulkaari diti jandi hai.Fir bharjayian usde hath te thodi mahndi lake usdi jholi kujh mitha(badaana, te mishri etc.) paundiyan ne te usda muh mitha karwaundiyan ne. Usde muh chuhara lagwake usnu fatti to utha leya janda hai.Maneyan jandahai ki usda jootha eh chuhara jo v khayega usda viah v chheti hi ho jayega.Pind diyan aurtaan nu ohna diyan thaliyan ch badaana te shagun ch aaya
dry fruit, mishri, makhane etc pake dite jande ne. Kudi diyan saheliyan nu thuthi(half coconut) ch eh sab paake dita janda hai.Fir kudi jholi peya smaan sab nu vand-di hai.
mayian pauna : fir next day or same day, mayian di rasam hundi hai. Fir kudi nu lakad di fatti te saje pair thale paise rakhke bithaya janda hai. Shagun wele kitiayan midiyan te gutt kholke ajj dobara usdi gutt kiti jandi hai. bhabhiyan usnu changi traan vesan da vatna
maldiyan ne. fir ik bhabhi kudi nu shagna da gaana ban-di hai.eh gaana viah ton agle din munda kholda hai. kudi di jholi vich hun ghunghniyan(ubaali hoyee kanak) te gud paya janda hai. Usda muh is naal mitha karwake usnu fatti ton utha leya janda hai.Fir kudi jholi peya smaan sab nu vand-di hai.
mahndi lagwana : viah ton ik do din pahlan kudi de shagun ch aayee mahndi gholi jandi hai. Fir kise mahndi laan wali nu bula ke ohh mahndi kudi nu te baaki sab saheliyan te rishtedaara nu layee jandi hai.(Ajkal kudiyan us mahndi da sirf shagun kardiyan ne, te khud
mahndi beautition ton hi lagwake aundiyan ne )
Choorha(or chooda) chadaana : viah ton pahli raat ya fir swere khaare(bath) chadaan ton pahlan kudi nu maame walon Choorha(or chooda) chadaya janda hai.Kudi da mama Choorha(or chooda) laike aunda hai. ik praat vich kachi lassi (mix water and milk) pake us 'ch Choorha
(or chooda) dhoke, maama 5 5 churiyan karke kudi de dove hathi Choorha(or chooda) paunda hai.Choorha(or chooda) chadake maama bhanevi nu kujh na kujh shagun paunda hai.
Khaare chadaana : Choorha(or chooda) chadaun ton baad khaare chaadaan di rasam hundi
hai.khare chadaana means nvaana (or ishnaan karwana).Kudi nu ik fatti te bithaya janda hai. kudi diyan bharjayian us nu vatna lake, usde sir vich dahi paake , usnu changi tran nvaandiyan ne. Fir kudi navaa suit paake tyar hoke use fatti te khadi ho jandi hai. Kudi udon tak us fatti ton niche nahi utardi jadon tak maama usnu kujh shagun ya gift de ke khud uthon utaar ke na laike aave. Fir maama bhanevi nu kujh shagun de ke chuk ke fatti ton niche utaarda hai.
Munde nu shagun laan jaana : Viah ton ik din pahlan kudi de ghar wale munde nu shagun laan jande ne. Kudi de pita ji munde te usde saare parivaar layee kujh bhetaan laike jande ne. Uthe munde nu sindoor da tilak lake usdi jholi goom(coconut)te shagun da baaki smaan pake rasam poori kiti jandi hai.
Jaago kadni : viah ton ik din pahlaan kudi diyan maamiyan jago kad-diyan ne. Pital di ik gagar nu aate de dive bnake badi achhi tran sjaya janda hai.fir maamiyan saare dive baal ke dadkiyan te hor rishtedaara nu naal laike jago kad-diyan ne. Is doraan nankiyan te daadkiyan
ch ik mithi ji nok jhok chaldi hai. Jaago nu jaan pahchaan de sare gharaan ch lai jaya janda hai. Ghar wale jaago ch tel paande ne te jaago leaun waleyan nu gidha paun layee kahnde ne.jago wale jinna jinna de ghar jande ne ohna de paani wale parche te kachiyan chullaan bhanke aunde ne.fir last ch ik chhajj bhan ke jago vapis ghar laiaundi jaandi hai.