Love OR Arrange?
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Konvicted_Jatt
S@RP@NCH
achha fer bf hee bnaoge????
Royal_Punjaban
»»K@mli!««
nai main koi bf v nai banana............
panjaban kudi
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both are good.... it depends on your understading of each other.. and also ik duje de naal kiwe rehnde o.
first i was all for love marriage but fir ghar dea ne arrange kar diti.. but it has still worked out... also depends on your luck
first i was all for love marriage but fir ghar dea ne arrange kar diti.. but it has still worked out... also depends on your luck
Royal_Punjaban
»»K@mli!««
yep......some times luck plays imp role in life....
sona-phul
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you never know a person until you live with them......tusi chahe jina marji ohna nu pyaar karo and chahe jina marji eh samjho v tusi ohna nu changi tara jaande aa...jina chir tusi ohna naal nhi rehnde ohna chir tuhanu ohna bare puri tara nhi pata. sooooo.... in love marriages... jad marriage toh baad tuhanu usdeya aadatan da pata lagda..then the problems start and eh reason hai jis kar k kahi love marraiges are not successfull...because u start to dislike the person...
anyways thats my opionion!
its better to hate someone you didnt know before marriage rather than hating someone u loved....
anyways thats my opionion!
its better to hate someone you didnt know before marriage rather than hating someone u loved....
Konvicted_Jatt
S@RP@NCH
ooooooooooooooonai main koi bf v nai banana............
jas_jøgåñ
Elite
yaar viah jo marji karwao arrange ya love te jinne marzi karwao 
..... bass khush raho te appne partner di family nu appni family samajo... ghar appe waseya rehnda no.. jo loki ladhde ne ohna de dimaag hil hunde ne..(meri soch mutabak).. pata ni chaar din di zindgi haigi vi a ke nahi...baaki sabh samajdaar ne ... appni appni soch te style hunda..
..... bass khush raho te appne partner di family nu appni family samajo... ghar appe waseya rehnda no.. jo loki ladhde ne ohna de dimaag hil hunde ne..(meri soch mutabak).. pata ni chaar din di zindgi haigi vi a ke nahi...baaki sabh samajdaar ne ... appni appni soch te style hunda..
arpita
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ur thinking is realistic but at the same time cynical sis g taanhi ta main keya aapni previous post ch (page 2) pe marriage kiss qisam d v hove pave arrange pave love it requires a lot of hardwork to make it work....and koi set formula nahin k sirf arrange ya sirf love hi work karugi.,..to make a marriage work you need: love for each other, respect for each other, trust in each other, lots of patience, ability to compromise and sacrifice, lot of understanding, and a lot of maturity on top of LUCK
jaani k naseeb jaani k qismat ....no doubt tussi agle nu kinni changi tarha v jaande hovo marriage ton pehla real aadata da baachon pata lagda when u start living with the person 24/7 ae v sach ae tuhanu agle d kuch cheezan changiyan laggan giya kuch cheezan nahin changiya laggan giya....but sohneyo onu v tuhadi kuch aadata gud laggan giya kuch nahin gud laggan giya enu hi ta kehnde ne compromise....and love when you accept your life part with their imperfections cuz no one is perfect na tussi te oho...ek duje layi respect hove ta pyar hove te aapde aap vich patience hove ta compromise karan d capability te flexibility hove te u will not hate the person...hate the lafz bohot strong ae ....menu ae dasso why hate someone? just because they're different from you? or just because they're not exactly what you thought they woould be? or just because they don't fit your definition of perfect husband/wife? ohdi achhiya nu muhrre rakho dekho ki ki achaaiyya ne and keep those in mind always jo imperfections ne ona nu mwaaf karna sikho....marriage requires a lot of forgiveness...
what you have to remember is, in most cases, tuhade naal naal ohda v first time ae being married, he;s never been a husband before he;s gonna make a lot of mistakes before he can figure out exactly how to behave as a husband just like you're going to make a lot of mistakes as a wife before you figure out what his definition of an "achi biwi" is... you also have to keep in mind that pehn prah jo ekko ghar de hunde ekko ma ton janam litta hunda ekko ma ton sab kuch sikheya hunda ona d aadatan nahin mildiya te as husband and wife you both come from different families, different experiences, and different backgrounds....of course you will be different from each other of course there will be some things in him you dont like and some things in you he won't like... that's life... instead developing hatred learn how to deal with it...how to accept him and how to change a little so that he can accept you... hate karna saukha hunda sis g but living with hate is aukha....it's tough to love someone but living with love is easy....life is short make the best of it...don't let negative feelings get in the way of something that could be a wonderful relationship
bhaashan zyada hogaya
Royal_Punjaban
»»K@mli!««
thanku ji..........for dis post...........bilkul thek a..........
Royal_Punjaban
»»K@mli!««
hanji..............
MAVERICK
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ur thinking is realistic but at the same time cynical sis g taanhi ta main keya aapni previous post ch (page 2) pe marriage kiss qisam d v hove pave arrange pave love it requires a lot of hardwork to make it work....and koi set formula nahin k sirf arrange ya sirf love hi work karugi.,..to make a marriage work you need: love for each other, respect for each other, trust in each other, lots of patience, ability to compromise and sacrifice, lot of understanding, and a lot of maturity on top of LUCK
no doubt tussi agle nu kinni changi tarha v jaande hovo marriage ton pehla real aadata da baachon pata lagda when u start living with the person 24/7 ae v sach ae tuhanu agle d kuch cheezan changiyan laggan giya kuch cheezan nahin changiya laggan giya....but sohneyo onu v tuhadi kuch aadata gud laggan giya kuch nahin gud laggan giya enu hi ta kehnde ne compromise....and love when you accept your life part with their imperfections cuz no one is perfect na tussi te oho...ek duje layi respect hove ta pyar hove te aapde aap vich patience hove ta compromise karan d capability te flexibility hove te u will not hate the person...hate the lafz bohot strong ae ....menu ae dasso why hate someone? just because they're different from you? or just because they're not exactly what you thought they woould be? or just because they don't fit your definition of perfect husband/wife? ohdi achhiya nu muhrre rakho dekho ki ki achaaiyya ne and keep those in mind always jo imperfections ne ona nu mwaaf karna sikho....marriage requires a lot of forgiveness...
what you have to remember is, in most cases, tuhade naal naal ohda v first time ae being married, he;s never been a husband before he;s gonna make a lot of mistakes before he can figure out exactly how to behave as a husband just like you're going to make a lot of mistakes as a wife before you figure out what his definition of an "achi biwi" is... you also have to keep in mind that pehn prah jo ekko ghar de hunde ekko ma ton janam litta hunda ekko ma ton sab kuch sikheya hunda ona d aadatan nahin mildiya te as husband and wife you both come from different families, different experiences, and different backgrounds....of course you will be different from each other of course there will be some things in him you dont like and some things in you he won't like... that's life... instead developing hatred learn how to deal with it...how to accept him and how to change a little so that he can accept you... hate karna saukha hunda sis g but living with hate is aukha....it's tough to love someone but living with love is easy....life is short make the best of it...don't let negative feelings get in the way of something that could be a wonderful relationship
bhaashan zyada hogaya
what a fantastic post...bari aukhi pari..but was worth it...
Points i got:
- Fatima already has multiple marriages..which is quite evident from first para itself.
- be compromising
- dont hate anybody...what an explanation for this.
- give enough time.
- change urself too.
Ur bhasan ...worth it..
Thanks for the huge post.
Konvicted_Jatt
S@RP@NCH
kee hanji???????hanji..............
sona-phul
Member
ur thinking is realistic but at the same time cynical sis g taanhi ta main keya aapni previous post ch (page 2) pe marriage kiss qisam d v hove pave arrange pave love it requires a lot of hardwork to make it work....and koi set formula nahin k sirf arrange ya sirf love hi work karugi.,..to make a marriage work you need: love for each other, respect for each other, trust in each other, lots of patience, ability to compromise and sacrifice, lot of understanding, and a lot of maturity on top of LUCK
no doubt tussi agle nu kinni changi tarha v jaande hovo marriage ton pehla real aadata da baachon pata lagda when u start living with the person 24/7 ae v sach ae tuhanu agle d kuch cheezan changiyan laggan giya kuch cheezan nahin changiya laggan giya....but sohneyo onu v tuhadi kuch aadata gud laggan giya kuch nahin gud laggan giya enu hi ta kehnde ne compromise....and love when you accept your life part with their imperfections cuz no one is perfect na tussi te oho...ek duje layi respect hove ta pyar hove te aapde aap vich patience hove ta compromise karan d capability te flexibility hove te u will not hate the person...hate the lafz bohot strong ae ....menu ae dasso why hate someone? just because they're different from you? or just because they're not exactly what you thought they woould be? or just because they don't fit your definition of perfect husband/wife? ohdi achhiya nu muhrre rakho dekho ki ki achaaiyya ne and keep those in mind always jo imperfections ne ona nu mwaaf karna sikho....marriage requires a lot of forgiveness...
what you have to remember is, in most cases, tuhade naal naal ohda v first time ae being married, he;s never been a husband before he;s gonna make a lot of mistakes before he can figure out exactly how to behave as a husband just like you're going to make a lot of mistakes as a wife before you figure out what his definition of an "achi biwi" is... you also have to keep in mind that pehn prah jo ekko ghar de hunde ekko ma ton janam litta hunda ekko ma ton sab kuch sikheya hunda ona d aadatan nahin mildiya te as husband and wife you both come from different families, different experiences, and different backgrounds....of course you will be different from each other of course there will be some things in him you dont like and some things in you he won't like... that's life... instead developing hatred learn how to deal with it...how to accept him and how to change a little so that he can accept you... hate karna saukha hunda sis g but living with hate is aukha....it's tough to love someone but living with love is easy....life is short make the best of it...don't let negative feelings get in the way of something that could be a wonderful relationship
bhaashan zyada hogaya
waow!! i never thought of tht! lolz wicked post ssis!!!! and bilkul sahi aa.. but then again it all comes back to the same thing... aj kal de zamane ch true love's hard to find...dont u think? or maybe i'm juss too negative
LOLZ!! but everything usaid is very true.. especially the compromise... that u have to accept everyone for who they are and they are definetly not perfect... but then the whole compromise is where the problems begin...kahi lok eh samajde nhi na v compromise v zaruri hunda hai hai na? in many marriages...dove jane compromise lyi tyar nhi hunde! but ur thinking is very true sis
thanks alot for sharing and bahut kuj sikhan nu mileyaa
jas_jøgåñ
Elite
nahi nahi siso tusi negative ni sochde... eh hakeekat a es kalyug di...pehla eh sabh kujj ni hunda c coz i think ke lokan de viah cheti ho jande c te ohna nu edar udar jaan da mauka hi ni milda c ... jo siyaaneya ne ik changi reet banayi c par ajj kall ik ton baad dooja insaan.. khair true love is sachi muchi hardi to find... Adjust karna painda doona nu sirf kudi nu hi ni munde nu vi... fer khushiya hi khushiya chaaron aaur 
❤ ❤ ❤Jalebi❤ ❤ ❤
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i agree
waise vi joh fun viaah tho pehla hunda oh viaah tho baad ta hunda ni...4 example ghardea tho chori chori millna, jha fir saari raat phn te gallan karniya etc ehna cheeza ch joh maaza hunda oh viaah tho baad ni hunda...viaah tho baad sab khatam 
Singh-a-lion
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i agree
Na na u can still continue,,bas tere gharwale nu pata na lagge k tu viah toon baad mere naal gallan kardi aa,,,u can have fun after marriage aswell
❤ ❤ ❤Jalebi❤ ❤ ❤
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Na na u can still continue,,bas tere gharwale nu pata na lagge k tu viah toon baad mere naal gallan kardi aa,,,u can have fun after marriage aswell
koi changiii galll vi sikkhaa dea karo menu
