Love OR Arrange?

[sona-phul]

Hii guys! Ok...i just want to know about all your views on this...what is better? Love Marriage or Arrange marriages? Kahi kehnde ne k love marriages zada vadeya ne kion k tusi apne humsafar nu jaande hunde ho vhya toh pehla and ohdiya habits nu and all that...and kahi kehnde ne k jo decision apne parents leynde ne sade layi ohi sahi hunda! i know k eh sab apni apni thinking te depend hunda hai...and thts what i want to know k tuhadi thinking ki hai? tusi daso...whts better?

Oh and my apologies agr eh thread already banneya hoya ya ese varga hor koi banneya hoya ta i'm sorry. u can delete it if u want!

 

[HoneY]

Hmmm
first talk abt arrange ,arrange vich tuhada o humsafar hunda jo tuhade ja sade maapey chun de ne....o kuj soch ke chun de ne o sade sukh dukh samaj sakhde ne tan hi sahi chun de ne..


Hun lovemarriage ..love marriage o hundi hai jehdri tusi appe chuneya humsafar,tusi maapeya nu kehnde o mein os nal pyar kardi hai te marriage karna chundi hain,means tusi apni marji das de o ghar deya nu
..con

 

[HoneY]

Nowdays they r not succesful..6 mahineya baad divorce..its relatiy..
So result is
arrange-60%
love-40%
this is my view
kuch zayada hi jasbati ho gaya lagda>haha

 

[harnoor]

I my views Arrange marrige is better than love marrige beczo yaar menu lagda aaaj kal time ena kharab ho geya ke jo disda oh hunda ni asi apne li kise nu chunnde han tan obvious he sanu oh vadiya lagda tan hi fer sanu os bande ch sirf changgiyan disdian asi ohdian burian adattan nu dekh ke vi undekheya ker denna han shurru shurru ch aa kuch vadiya lagda bt later on jad real life di gal kariye tan fer sanu lagda ki yaar aa sahi he aaha galat he per manu lagda odon bohat der ho jandi he.......


But parents ne apne ton vad duniya dekhi hundi he ohna nu pehli var ch agl baat kaen nal puri ni tan bande di kafi pehchan ho jandi so..........menu lagda sadi aaj jo time he lok jinne chusat chllak ho chuuke he sada desicion shayyad parents ton better ni ho sakda


vesse vi life sirf pyar na ni chaldi koi tuhanu kahi jaye I love u......per dang naal na rakhe tuhadi self respect na samje tan jindagi aukhi ho jandi he.....

baki apni apni soch he....

 

[Lily]

I agree with harnoor n jasbati honey.

 

[HoneY]

shukariya tuhanu mere view pasand aye:D

 

[Johal]

 

[munda_wakhre_type_da]

dhane da jawab sunlo..
bai chahe arrange karao chahe love..bas agli saanh lendi howe.. wea karan aale bano mera bas.. 22 saal hoge tanhai ch rende nu..mere tanhai chako yaar..

 

[kudi_patole_wargi]

tu bahle pange lainda aa guri jiddan oh tere magar pai gya fer tu collaboration karan nu firna aa

 

[Bhaarat ki Mitti]

meri opion aa: love marriage for me and duje saareyan di arrage karo >haha

 

[P-a-r-d-e-s-i]

me ik frend a.. oh kehnda c.. ohnu arrange hi krwani a .. jis tra ohde parents kehnde a.. fir na ohnu ik kuri naal luv ho gya..... inna pagal ho gya...uthda bethada jagde sonde lol ohnu hi yaad krda c.. te kehnda me love marriage hi karwani a..
but fir kuch time langya oh kenda sukr yaar me love marriage ni krwaii eh kuri te change ho gyee.. so hun oh fir jado karwani araange hi krwani a..

so ohde wal dekh-ke menu lagda
arrange hi theek a..
love 100 wich 5%-6% hi happy ending hunda lOl

 

[HoneY]

mien poll diti hai na os vich hain hain nhi mila sakhde ci smirk

 

[SinghinEU]

I too agree with hanoor. Its all the fate game.
Je tuwadhe kismat wich kise da pyaar likhya hain ta oh kisi bhi bahane na mil janda hain. Bhaanve arrange yah pher love marriage naal. Main kinniya marriages dekhiya friend circle wich. Koi love marriage nal kosh hain ta koi arrange naal. Again its all the fate game....


~~~Rab ne banaya jodhiya ~~~

 

[harnoor]

Thanks tuhanu mere views pasand aye..........


aha gal ohni hi sahi he ki raaba ne bain jodiya jinni aha ke raat nu dup ni ho sakdi.........yaar appan jinna marji jor la liye jinna marji kise de naal khad lie te jinna marji kise li duniya naal lad liye hunda ohie jo rabb nu manjur he te ohi saade li best he...........

 

[DJ BaLLi]

jo marji karalo yaar

 

[P-a-r-d-e-s-i]

jo marji kida krlo tear okha

 

[sona-phul]

this is soo true! i completly agree wid u! vayse v jo apne parents sochan ge apne layi oh ta obviosuly vadeya hou!!

I my views Arrange marrige is better than love marrige beczo yaar menu lagda aaaj kal time ena kharab ho geya ke jo disda oh hunda ni asi apne li kise nu chunnde han tan obvious he sanu oh vadiya lagda tan hi fer sanu os bande ch sirf changgiyan disdian asi ohdian burian adattan nu dekh ke vi undekheya ker denna han shurru shurru ch aa kuch vadiya lagda bt later on jad real life di gal kariye tan fer sanu lagda ki yaar aa sahi he aaha galat he per manu lagda odon bohat der ho jandi he.......


But parents ne apne ton vad duniya dekhi hundi he ohna nu pehli var ch agl baat kaen nal puri ni tan bande di kafi pehchan ho jandi so..........menu lagda sadi aaj jo time he lok jinne chusat chllak ho chuuke he sada desicion shayyad parents ton better ni ho sakda


vesse vi life sirf pyar na ni chaldi koi tuhanu kahi jaye I love u......per dang naal na rakhe tuhadi self respect na samje tan jindagi aukhi ho jandi he.....

baki apni apni soch he....

 

[The HERO]

hmmm LOVE e changi hundi ae....

 

[sunny240]

marrige ta mrrige he hundi love howe ya arrange,,,,,,,,dona ch he khusyiea ve ne gam ve,,,,agr do lokka ch understandng hai ta har mrrige successful raho ,,,,,,nhi ta fer,,,,,,,,,bahnde kharknge.......
but dont forgt ur famly for anyne...........

 

[oneinbillion07]

i think arrange marriage is d rt choice..............