Harman, in my opinion, first try to understand k parents mna kyun kar rahe ne....ohna de reasons suno...je tuhanu lagda hai ki ohna ne kite miss-understood kita hai tan ohna nu apna point of view samjhaan di koshish karo...n bhajna koi solution nahi hunda.....eh sab kahna asaan hunda hai ki usnu ehna pyar karde han...maa baap bina kamm chal jayega..n blah blah...but jado sir te paindi hai udon pta lagda hai.....parents bina rahna mushkil hi nahi na-mumkin hai..... main eh nahi kahndi ki, jis ladke/ladki layee tusi eh sab kar rahe ho ohh tuhanu khush nahi rakhega...par parents naal rishtey tod ke aap hi khush nahi rahoge...bade saare chaa te reejhaan hundiyaan mann diyaan..jo sirf parents hi puriyaan kar sakde ne...ohna di khushi ton bina mann ch ik aisi kasak jihi rah jaandi hai ki tusi kadi pure mann naal khush nahi hovoge....
mera suggession tan eh hi hai...ki tusi parents nu samjhaan di koshish karo....je tusi khud layee bilkul sahi insaan chuneyaan hai..tan ajj nahi te kal tusi parents nu convince kar hi lavoge..if u say u love that person..tan tusi ohna nu convince kar sakde ho..if u cant..then its not worth it.... wait, wait n wait.... if u cant wait....then its not worth it.... bass ik hi request hai bhajjeyo na....maape mar jaange