Ki main galat aa???

[swtraman]

ssa ji saareyan nu
m ramandeep, plz call me raman
m new here, so i want ur all opinions in my life prob.

main tuhade sareyan nal ik gal share krna chahundi haan.
te tuC iss topic te apne vichar sanjhe kro plz
i need advice in dis

so meri ek choti jahi problem hai,,,,shayad tuC saare meri madad kr skde ho ya koi advice de skde koi,,ya mainu sahi raste te lai k aa skde ho...
so basiclly mainu apne dad naal problem hai, mainu papa di aadat bilkul chngi nhi lgdi..ohna da bolan da tarika mainu bht galat lagda hai,,
mere papa hamesha mom nu gaalan kadd de ne te mainu pta nhi lgda main ki karaa. hun te mera viah v ho chukka hai so jadon main ghar jndi aa parents nu milan, mainu bht dukh lgda eho kujh dekh k,, jo kujh mom nal ho reha thik nhi ho reha,,my papa swear on my mom,,oh v kise di kudi hai. dad nu smjhna chahida hai k ohna kol v 3 kudiyan ne. but rabb di meharbani hai k my husband never swear on me, waheguru ne mainu bht chnga husband dita,
jadon asi chote hunde c asi kujh ni bolde hnde c,,jo kujh papa ne keha asi schde hnde c haan ehi sahi hai, te kade kade asi aiven hi agree kr lainde c dad nal kyu k asi ladaiyan ton door rehna chaunde c, ghar vch shanti rakhna chahunde c.. also all my life papa ne kuj nhi kita, na koi kamm na koi paise banaye na ghar de kamma nu hath laya, but fer v main ehi kehndi aa k i love my papa. but ohna di aadat--i really hate it.
te duji gal eh,, papa mere nal v hamesha gusse rehnde ne. i hav 2 businesses, te jadon v main ghar aundi aa,ya ghar phon krdi aa, papa bas lecture karan lag painde ne k "tenu business nhi chalauna aunda, te eh nhi aunda tenu woh nhi aunda",, jidan main koi stupid bachi hndi aa te mainu kujh nhi aunda hnda.! mainu kade kade bht gussa aunda e dad diyan gallan te, but main ignore kar dindi aa sirf shanti kr k.. but 2-3 mahine pehlan v both had disagreement nd dad ne mainu bulauna chad 'ta. ,papa kehi jnde c "tenu business nhi aunda,,tenu basic maths nhi krni aundi,,why u study masters tenu te hje v nhi kujh aunda,,tu apni puri life waste kr diti" ,,,fer mainu bht hurt feel hoya te main dad nu sachiyan suna dittiyan k papa tusi mainu hamesha intimidate krde ho te mainu hamesha injh lgda hai k main failure aa, assi v rabb de bande aa so sanu eho jahiyan gallan sun k v dukh lgde hai ........fer papa ik dam gusse ho gye te kehnde main attitude de rahi aa te main ajj kal zyada hi bolan lag payi,
but guys, my dad alwys do like this, shuru te lai k mainu, meriyan bhena nu, mere bro nu, mere mom nu, alwys make us feel v r worthless.................guys m i wrong fr saying like this? aakhir main kini der bardash kri java? mainu te lag nhi reha k main kujh galat keha,,na main attitude nal keha kujh. is it wrong standing fr rights? mainu pta parents di respect krni chahidee hai, te main ohna di respect krdi aa,,bht krdi aa, rabb jnda hai, but ki mainu chup karna chahida c? te kyu?????
m i wrong fr standing up fr myself?? even i said wid no attitude

 

[gurvy]

can understand

respect karni chayidi but ehda matlab eh ni ki sab kuch sahi jayo ..

yeah eda de peyo bot sir khande aap ta khush ni rende dujeya nu vi nayi rehan dinde
ghar da head aa ta ghardeya nu khush rakhna ke ohna di jeena mushkil karna

ghar da mahol hi kharaab ho janda na ghar varan nu vi dil ni karda ..hana ??

but eh aadat bot maari hundi time naal sahi huni kayi mot da mooh dekh ke sudar jande

raman kuch galat ni kita tusi banda kina ko seh lave ..chatopehar ghar ch kaal payi rakhni je bolna ta galat hi bolna kon jee layu ehda

thank god ur married now and apne husband naal khush aa

i hope ur mom and bro & sis vi es situation cho niklan

 

[swtraman]

dhanwaad gurvy ji
tuC apne vichar bde khul k pesh kite aa, i like dis
te tuC mainu v reasure kr dita k main kujh galat nhi keha so th nx gurvy ji, nw i can sleep peaceful.

 

[gurvy]

sleeeeeeeeeeeeep tight

dont let the bugs bite

 

[Ak47_Riskykz]

Bibba ji , Don't know if m able or nt bt jinni k akkal aa

Uhde hissab nal kehn lagga , changa lagga te theek j nahi lagga te plz dont mind .


Oh thuade Dad aa ! Jihna ne thuanu is duniya te liyanda aa.

Ohna de aginst jana ja koi galt step chukkna thuadi galti howegi.

Insaan kinna v gusse wala , ya rude kiu na howe

Ohde andar v dil hunda te Us dil anddar Usdi aulaad layi piyaar v hunda

koi show karda hai te koi nahi..

Koi v insaan Mada nahi hunda halat hi usnu galt bana dinde aa,

I think thuade dad nu lagda k uhna di koi respect ni karda ya fer ohna nu lagda k sarre uhna de aginst ne , Jad insaan ikalla feel karn lag jawe te akssar oh Gusse da shikkar ho janda te os nu pata ni lagda k oh kis nu ki keh riha hai ,

Ghar vich ya bahar koi insaan te iddan da hona jihna di oh mannde hon
gharde Buzurga nu nal le k piyaar nal beh k gall baat karro

Apni problem dasso te ohna di pucho te solve karn di koshish karro...

Ohna nu time dao , aginst na bolo , apna gussa control karroo ,, Respect dao ..

Dekhna it will work ...

 

[gurvy]

^^ time dayo she said shuru to leke kakka

bazurg hon da matlab eh ta nayi ke sir khayi jayo chatopehar or looh balan kari jayo sareya nu or demoralize kari jayo

banda poora din ghar jaan da raah dekh da and ghar varo te aa kuch banda kithe jaave fer

gussa control karo bazurga to nayi hunda apna gussa control ya ohna ne apni latt utte hi rakhni hundi even if oh galat hunde

 

[swtraman]

thx u sunny ji,
tuhade vichar mainu bht vadiya lagge,
i also believe same like u but, dad kise di v nhi mande,,kaun smjhave dad nu? saareyan ne pyar naal smjha k dekh leya,,smjhaya k aadat badlo but oh te dadha dhadi ji di gal v nhi mande na ohna nu bolan da haqq dinde,
akhir asi v bande aa, koi sanu galat kave te sanu v dukh lagda hai. akhir asi kini der bardash kri jawange?...dad nu te pta hi hai main ohna di kini 'k respect krdi aa, ohna di jagah koi nhi lai skda, te haan ohna ne sanu iss duniya te lai k aunda, but eda eh matlab nhi k sanu sab kujh bardash krna chahida?, i mean v all hav limit na,, if v r getting kicked evry time, 1 day v will stand up nd say look u r doing wrong wid me,
je galat krna te bolna paap hai ,fer galat sehna v paap hai ji.....

(thx fr ur opinions i respect them dearly)

 

[gurvy]

^^ good girl totally agreee

 

[Ak47_Riskykz]

^^^ yaar jad shuru ton katt layi hun ki aa

main ih ni kehnda k zulm ya dhakka sehna chahida

bt apne ghardiya nal piyaar nal v gall ho sakdi aa

veer tu ki kehna dad nu hun buddhe ho gaye te ohna nu gharo bahar kadh den

ya fer koi hor galt step chukko ..

main te ihi kehna piyaar nal gall kar lao

j nahi te alag reh lao ,, Iddan uhna nu v apni galti da ashisas ho jana !

 

[gurvy]

^^ ahahahaa r u serious ??? hun banda mout tak katti jave zindagi ta ehi kamma layi aa hana

buddhe ni she said shuru to

ohne ehni changi tara samjaya

 

[swtraman]

nai dad ida de nhi, alag reh k ohna nu kujh ni ehsaas hona.... balke ohna ne mainu doshi thehrana te kehna main zippi aa main attitude dindi aa,
main te hun kujh nhi kehna dad nu pyar naal hi gal karangi future ch.... bcos dad will never change, so i will hv to

 

[Ak47_Riskykz]

nai dad ida de nhi, alag reh k ohna nu kujh ni ehsaas hona.... balke ohna ne mainu doshi thehrana te kehna main zippi aa main attitude dindi aa,
main te hun kujh nhi kehna dad nu pyar naal hi gal karangi future ch.... bcos dad will never change, so i will hv to

Yeah u can do it ..

Coz dad loves her doughter more than his son !

 

[Ak47_Riskykz]

^^ ahahahaa r u serious ??? hun banda mout tak katti jave zindagi ta ehi kamma layi aa hana

buddhe ni she said shuru to

ohne ehni changi tara samjaya

Hun te dad uhna de buddhe hi aa

gall ajj di aa

jo gujar giya ohnu kaun wapis liya sakda

Save ur feature !

 

[pps309]

There is a basic reason behind this attitude. The person himself do not work, so he has to prove his superiority by finding faults in other's work. He can do that all the time because he has assurance that his family will never show him the mirror.

At this age it is tough to get rid of his habit, best thing is understand the above reason. Make use of two ears, listen from one and get it out from other. Don't let it reach your head.

Gallan kadan aali aadat mainu v nahi pasand, i guess someone can constantly keep reminiding him ke gal na kaddo