Do Castes or Sub Castes Make Any Sense these days!

[Und3rgr0und J4tt1]

Castes really don't.... sub castes... as long as these do not contribute to false sense of arrogance and other negative feelings for fellow human beings, still make some sense

wats ur view!​

 

[userid 56304]

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I am going to be really honest with you.

I think Yes it matters. Castey tey Subcaste merey hisab naal kyun create kitian apney elders ney.

Lifestyle difference hunda.......Jatts have a certain kind of lifestyle and they follow certain norms.........same way saini, tarkhans have a lil bit of different lifestyle. There are subtle differences in their lifestyle that you will notice if you live among them.


In the culture that we live in.......most often kuri apna ghar shad key......mundey dey ghar jandi a? theek?.....its not like west jithey kuri munda alag hokey apney ghar chul jandey a tey parents nu shad dindey a.

Apney culture ch marriage da matlab a kuri nu mundey dey naal naal ohdey ghar dean tey rishteydaran naal v adjust karna painda.

Hun tusi puchongey ehdey naal caste da ki lainda dehna. Joh meh kehna cha reha ohda matlab eh ah......ki kai siyaney apni cast ch hi marriage lai is lai force kardey a tah ki kuri nu mundey tey ohdi family tey relatives naal adjust karan ch saukha hovey.

Jeh jattan di kuri jattan dey ghar jaugi tah ohnu supposedly saukha houga settle hona because cultural norms same ney. Jeh ehi kuri kisey hor dye ghar viyahi jau tah ohdey relatives naal aukha houga kyunki apni community ch different castes have subtle differences in their lifestyles. Ehi theory a merey hisab naal apni caste ch marriage karwaun di.

Do i think caste's matter? As long as people dont become arrogant and stupid i think its fine. However does it do the job it is intended to do?

Merey hisab naal tah han par dujey bandey merey nal shaid na agree kardey hon.

 

[Mandeep Kaur Guraya]

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Hanji veere(Gabhru Top Da),
tusi bilkul sahi likheya hai uper jo v likheya hai..I agree with you.... apni cast te subcaste ch viah karvaan da sab to vadda reason ehi hai..main tuhanu apne ghar di hi gall dasdi han.... mere chacha ji ne marriage apni cast wich na karke ik hor cast di jatt family di kudi naal kiti...mere chachi ji bahut achhe ne..te mere ghar de saare jee v... but problem aundi hai jado apne apne culture da swaal uthda hai..ajj chachi ji nu saade ghar aaye hoye 20 saal ho chale ne..par ajje tak na te meri family te na hi chachi ji ik duje naal adjust kar paye...chhottiyan chhottiyan gallan pichhe ini vaar gall jhagde tak v puji..te akhir sab da ik hi jawaab hunda hai..ki je chacha ji ne viah same cast wich kita hunda te eh sab problems nahi hundiyan....
Tusi sab kujh bahut hi sahi dhang naal explain kita hai...vaise mera te man-na hai ki siyaneyan ne jo v tark bnaye ne..har pichhe koi na koi valid te good reason jaroor hai..we should follows these...
baaki lokaan de vichaar shayad mere naal na milan..but main te live example dekhi hai...

 

[pie_rasberry]

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yes ! u rite! j4tti!

 

[pps309]

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I don't agree with mandeep.kaur and her story.

Same castes marriages ch v aa sab problems aaundiya ne. I can give you tons of example of same caste marriage and then life long arguments or divorce etc etc.

I don't believe this, it's not caste. It's the mentality that matters. Ik ghar ch peo te putt di nahi bandi je ohna di soch ya goal vakhre hon.

Seriously sikhs have to come out of caste system. Love other caste people as your Guru-Bhai or Guru-Bahen and sit with them, talk to them. We will start understanding each other and this differences will wipe out.

Main reason for casteism in old days was the social and financial status.
Now a days its not the case, you have status if you have money and education.

Consider this scenario, A highly educated and ricj Jatt girl will not marry a poor and uneducated jatt boy, on the contrary she can marry a educated, rich Saini or Kamboh guy.

 

[pps309]

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Regarding the different mentality for different castes. The reason is we don't mix well with other castes, we are not social with other castes. So we cannot expect they will have mentality like us or we will have mentality like them.

 

[Mandeep Kaur Guraya]

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Regarding the different mentality for different castes. The reason is we don't mix well with other castes, we are not social with other castes. So we cannot expect they will have mentality like us or we will have mentality like them.

Hanji veere, tuhanu pura pura haq hai mere naal disagree hon da, jo main daseya oh mera experience c, te mere vichaar ne.tuhade alag ho sakde ne.
PAr main tuhadi is gall naal agree nahi kardi ki is gal da kaaran hai ki assi ik duje naal mix nahi hunde. Aisa kujh v nahi hai, balki ik duje naal mix ho ke hi tuhanu pta lagda hai ki kinna gallaan ch assi same han te kinna ch diffrent. ki assi apne aap ch change kar sakde han, te ki dujeyan to expect kar sakde han....... bachpan to hun tak mere apni cast de sirf 2 hi friends ne baaki mere saare friends dujiyaan caste de hi ne.... main ohna de gharaan ch bahut saare functions attend kite ne.. te mere eh vichaar bahut hadd tak ohna experiences to v aaye ne... main mandi han ki bahut sare gharaan ch same caste de hunde hoye v problems aundiyan ne... par main ohna problems di gall kar rahi c jo common problems to zra upper hatt ke... jo ik extra gall (caste ) karke aundiyan ne... sassa te nuhan di tan kayee gallan pichhe ni bandi.. par vakhre culture karke ohna kol hor kayee saare mudde aa jande ne ladan layee.. so mere experience te ehi rahe ne ... baaki ho sakda hai tusi jyada lucky rahe ho is maamle ch

 

[snoopy_amli]

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wat the.....

kush ne hunda ajjkal de zmane ch...my cuzin rimpi grewal is getting married to Hindu rajput Chauhan gurl

Dil Milne chahide ne...casts tan bandeyan ne bnyiyan.....but bande tan RABB ne bnaye..and rabb lee sab brober ne

eruuentum..vadiyan castan wale v shoti harktan krde and kde kde shti cast aale vadde kaare kar jande...so doesnt really matter

Humanisim nu chete rakho bas...cast bas Sername vich he changi lgdi

 

[userid 56304]

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wat the.....

kush ne hunda ajjkal de zmane ch...my cuzin rimpi grewal is getting married to Hindu rajput Chauhan gurl

Dil Milne chahide ne...casts tan bandeyan ne bnyiyan.....but bande tan RABB ne bnaye..and rabb lee sab brober ne

eruuentum..vadiyan castan wale v shoti harktan krde and kde kde shti cast aale vadde kaare kar jande...so doesnt really matter

Humanisim nu chete rakho bas...cast bas Sername vich he changi lgdi

Humanism dey naam tey sarean races nu mix karan da kam tusi karo.....saanu tah apni caste hi changi a...

 

[Princess6863]

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i unno wat kinda adjustment or difference in life style ug uys r talkin about @ gabru n mandeep
je religion di gal hondi mai fer v mann lendii buh casteee

 

[snoopy_amli]

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theek aa fer

kaash yar sabdi mentality edan di hundi...lightzzzzzzzz