kudia de wiah ton vaad apne parents laie faraz...........................

Pardesan Punjaban

Alone but Happy
hi everyone
am here again:gig

k serious now:an

aaj main soch rahi si kion kee last week kise old lady da comment sunia kise naal galla karde kee saada munda te sahuria da gulam aa as he was helping his ill mother in lawsmirk

as u know kee parents kine pyar naal apne bachia noo bada karde,edcuations dinde and so on...kuida noo vi te mundia noo vi fer jadon assi kudia apne parents dee look after kion nahi kar sakdia:( whn they need us:w ...................

1. fer aaj kal vi kayie lok is tara kion sochde kee kudia wiah ton vaad pariya ho jaandia???????????:tear
2. kee kudia de apne parents laie koie faraz nahi??????":n
je kudi wiah ton vaad changi nuh(daughter in law) ban ke os da faraz aa apne sas sahure dee look after karna.......................fer jawie da farz kion nahi????????????:y
3. is tara kion sochde kee kudia wiah ton vaad pariya han..parents da ghar ohna da apna ghar nahi?????????\
4..
kee munde apne wiah ton vaad apne sass sahure dee vi os tara dekh bhaal karnge jis tara oh apni wife kol expect kare apne parents dee look after karna:kin



and so onnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn


plz aa ke apne vichar dasso
wht u think abt subject??????????????
 

arpita

Prime VIP
Re: kudia de kudia da wiah ton vaaapne parents laie faraz.......................

j mape munda jamm de te kudi v mape hi jammde...mere khayal ch j vyah ton baad husband ya sohre eh expect karan k kudi nu apne pekeyan layi kush nahin karna chaheeda te ona di eh najayaz expectation hai.

main chahungi jad mera vyah hove k mera husband v mere parents di unhi care karay jimein main osde parents di karungi...par main ehe expectation nahin rakhungi oston...enna zaroor hai k main ghato ghat ehe expectation rakhaangi k j onu mere parents nal dilchaspi nahin na sahi par ghato ghat menu te jo mera chit karda karan davay mere mapeyan layi...afterall sab ton zyada haqqq hamesha mapeyan da hi hundi betiyan te v te sons te v


tuhade savaalan da jawaanb:

1) puraane reeti rivaajan tpon nikalna aukha hunda.....nikalna te chaheeda par nikalan layi koi fight nai karda
2)kudiyan da farz hai apne parents layi jiddan main keya k j mape munda jammde te kudi v jammde...j mape mundeyan layi sacrifices karde paal poss k vadda karde ona di khwaahishan poori karde...ona nu padhaande changi life deinde te kudiyan layi v karde...so parents da haqq apni kudi te v onna k hi hai jinna munde te
3) kyunki kudi apne ghar nu shad k dujay ghar turdd jaandi.....sohreyan ch vardh jaandi...kadi ghat hi eddan vekheya k kudi munde da vyah hunde saar apna ghar hove :p lolzz that doesn't answer ur question but im putting it out there cuz i think it is important for a married couple to be away from everyone for a while after their marriage so that they can develop a reltionship and an understanding with each other without interference from relatives...sade culture te society ch relatives interfere karne ton baaz nai aande

to answer ur question though it's just an old ingrained way of thinking ...another rutt that we have to fight to get out of
4) karna te chaheeda
 

Konvicted_Jatt

S@RP@NCH
Re: kudia de kudia da wiah ton vaaapne parents laie faraz.......................

hanji mundiya da v farz ban-da hai k oh apne sas-sahurey nu apna real mom-dad samjh k seva karan,,,,
 

smilly

VIP
Re: kudia de kudia da wiah ton vaaapne parents laie faraz.......................

hi everyone
am here again:gig

k serious now:an

aaj main soch rahi si kion kee last week kise old lady da comment sunia kise naal galla karde kee saada munda te sahuria da gulam aa as he was helping his ill mother in lawsmirk

as u know kee parents kine pyar naal apne bachia noo bada karde,edcuations dinde and so on...kuida noo vi te mundia noo vi fer jadon assi kudia apne parents dee look after kion nahi kar sakdia:( whn they need us:w ...................

1. fer aaj kal vi kayie lok is tara kion sochde kee kudia wiah ton vaad pariya ho jaandia???????????:tear
2. kee kudia de apne parents laie koie faraz nahi??????":n
je kudi wiah ton vaad changi nuh(daughter in law) ban ke os da faraz aa apne sas sahure dee look after karna.......................fer jawie da farz kion nahi????????????:y
3. is tara kion sochde kee kudia wiah ton vaad pariya han..parents da ghar ohna da apna ghar nahi?????????\
4..
kee munde apne wiah ton vaad apne sass sahure dee vi os tara dekh bhaal karnge jis tara oh apni wife kol expect kare apne parents dee look after karna:kin



and so onnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn


plz aa ke apne vichar dasso
wht u think abt subject??????????????


bhut sahi soch rahe ho tusin.......

eh samaaj de teeke daaran ne galaan udaaiyaan ne......
parents layi beetiyaan kade parayiaan ni ho sakdiyaan....
eh soch galat hai........ parents da ghar unha da apna ghar honda hai...
main taan eh hi sochda haan.......
 

reshmi_mutiyar

LITTLE KITTEN
Re: kudia de kudia da wiah ton vaaapne parents laie faraz.......................

PP sis g nice thread banaya,

mein te ihhi kahoongi ki kuddiyan v maa peo di lookafter kardiyan aa, jad takk ohna de ghar ch rehndiyan aa, baad ch v karna chondiyan,, per sohre ghar diyan majboorian ch fass jaandiyan ne,, kyonki pehlaan ohna da faraz, viah to baad sohre ghar da hunda aa,
puttan to bahuaan mildiyan,, tuhade v veer honge, jihna diyan wives tuhade maa baap de sewa karangiyan jiss tarah tusi apne sohriyan di sewa karoge,,,,,,

matlab kehan da, jiss ghar cho dhee jaandi aa,, uthe bahu ondi v hai,,, hisaab barabar,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

tuhanu pata mere dad nahi aa, merian baahan ch damm tod de dad nu dekh ke mum 7 mahine DEEP COMA ch rahe, jado jaage te brain da memory part amygdala, thora damage c, jis naal mum di memory confuse ho jaandi aa, har 10-12 din baad oh sochde aa ki dad is still alive,, but he's not at home,,,

tuhanu ih iss karke dass di aa ki kehna chondi aa, ki i lookafter my mum 24/7 ohna nu shad nahi sakdi ,kite v jaa nahi sakdi,, weird attack ho jaanda aa,, dad nu aawaazan maran lag jaande aa, fir nervous breakdown,,,,last 2 weeks to she's been sick almost everyday,, I LOVE MY MUM,,

OHNA DE KARAN MEIN APNA VIAH V JHOOTH BOL KE 1 SAAL LATE KARWAA LIYA APNI ZID KARKE,, KI MEIN POST GRADUATION KARNI AA,, :cry :cry i dont ever wan2 leave my mum
 

smilly

VIP
eh sach hai ki mudiyaan ton vadha diyaan raniyaan apne parents nu pyaar kardiyaan ne. Par puraani vichar dhaar karke sub unha nu parayaa dhan kehende,.. Oh parayiaan kiven ho sakdiyaan ne jina us hi parents de janam lita jis de putar hoye. ladkiyaan jayaada jimevaar / ate jayaada pyaar kardiyaan ne parents nu.... ek di he kise vi ghar nu swaraj ya narak bana sakdi hai......
 
main taan samjda g ke viah ton baad munde te kudi nu "tere maa peo ya mere maa peo" karan di thaan "apne maa peo" samaj ke donna de parents da khyaal rakhna chahida........eddan karan naal donna de parents v kush te donno aap v khush:y
 

Pardesan Punjaban

Alone but Happy
main taan samjda g ke viah ton baad munde te kudi nu "tere maa peo ya mere maa peo" karan di thaan "apne maa peo" samaj ke donna de parents da khyaal rakhna chahida........eddan karan naal donna de parents v kush te donno aap v khush:y
agree wid u
per saare is tara keh dinde jadon karn dee vari hundi fer diffrent:an
 

Pardesan Punjaban

Alone but Happy
eh sach hai ki mudiyaan ton vadha diyaan raniyaan apne parents nu pyaar kardiyaan ne. Par puraani vichar dhaar karke sub unha nu parayaa dhan kehende,.. Oh parayiaan kiven ho sakdiyaan ne jina us hi parents de janam lita jis de putar hoye. ladkiyaan jayaada jimevaar / ate jayaada pyaar kardiyaan ne parents nu.... ek di he kise vi ghar nu swaraj ya narak bana sakdi hai......
agree wid u smilly jee

kudia vi te os ghar jamia pallia hundia fer paroyia kion ho jaandia:n
 

Pardesan Punjaban

Alone but Happy
Re: kudia de kudia da wiah ton vaaapne parents laie faraz.......................

PP sis g nice thread banaya,

mein te ihhi kahoongi ki kuddiyan v maa peo di lookafter kardiyan aa, jad takk ohna de ghar ch rehndiyan aa, baad ch v karna chondiyan,, per sohre ghar diyan majboorian ch fass jaandiyan ne,, kyonki pehlaan ohna da faraz, viah to baad sohre ghar da hunda aa,
puttan to bahuaan mildiyan,, tuhade v veer honge, jihna diyan wives tuhade maa baap de sewa karangiyan jiss tarah tusi apne sohriyan di sewa karoge,,,,,,

matlab kehan da, jiss ghar cho dhee jaandi aa,, uthe bahu ondi v hai,,, hisaab barabar,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

tuhanu pata mere dad nahi aa, merian baahan ch damm tod de dad nu dekh ke mum 7 mahine DEEP COMA ch rahe, jado jaage te brain da memory part amygdala, thora damage c, jis naal mum di memory confuse ho jaandi aa, har 10-12 din baad oh sochde aa ki dad is still alive,, but he's not at home,,,

tuhanu ih iss karke dass di aa ki kehna chondi aa, ki i lookafter my mum 24/7 ohna nu shad nahi sakdi ,kite v jaa nahi sakdi,, weird attack ho jaanda aa,, dad nu aawaazan maran lag jaande aa, fir nervous breakdown,,,,last 2 weeks to she's been sick almost everyday,, I LOVE MY MUM,,

OHNA DE KARAN MEIN APNA VIAH V JHOOTH BOL KE 1 SAAL LATE KARWAA LIYA APNI ZID KARKE,, KI MEIN POST GRADUATION KARNI AA,, :cry :cry i dont ever wan2 leave my mum
agree wid u sis g
yeh i don't have a dad either so hard ho janda:n

and main vi thora sochdi kee je meri bhabi to be ne mere mom dee look after nah kiti and mere sass sahure vi kapte hoye:an gonna be hard......................
 

pps309

Prime VIP
Sandep ji Bohat changi thread banai aa.....

Main v kuch kehna mangda aa......

Kudi da vyah ho janda oss to baad v kudi appne maa-peo di dhee hi rehndi aa. Je Maa-peo bimar aa ya koi dukh sukh aa te kudi de otthe hon di lor aa, kudi da faraz v aa, dharam v aa ke oh apne maa-peo naal hove. Munde nu v aa gal samjhni chaeedi aa. Oh v time kad ke saas saure di seva kar sakda aa.....but eh depend karda ke rishtya ch kinna pyar aa. Pyar ik insaan de dilo aaunda.

Kudi nu apne pakeya de naal naal apni ghar di grahsti da v dekhna painda. Hun je mann lo kudi de veer/bhabi haige aa maa-peo di seva karan lai te saurya nu v lor aa (suppose oh v bimar ya helpless aa) ta kudi nu saure ghar di seva karni chaeedi aa.

Te je mann dovein passya nu lor aa te seva karan wale sirf iko hi couple aa.......ta bajurga di seva vandi v ja sakdi aa, rishtedar di help litti ja sakdi aa........I am of the opinion ke je jaade hi aaukha ta dovein family katthe v reh sakde aa.......(I don't know how many will buy this.......)

Sab to main gal aa...ehje deciscion oss time sahi tarike naal litte ja sakde aa jad donna familya ch, relations ch pyar hove.

Main ik gal share karna mangda etthe. I heard it from Sant Maskin Singh Ji.

kehnde aa 2 daanver v lar painde aa, so daan mann nu shudh nahi karda.
2 Seva daar v lar painde aa, so seva bhi mann-atma nu purn shanti nahi de sakdi
2 Genious v lar painde aa....so education bhi mann nu puran shanti nahi dendi.......

Ta fer kehri cheez mann nu shudh shant rakh sakdi aa....Oh aa......Pyar.
Jiss naal pyar hunda oss da banda kade bura nahi takega, osda kade nuksaan nahi hon devbega, osdi himayat karega.
Te je aa pyar complete ho jaye.....purn pyar ho jaye bande nu sab naal pyar ho jaye ta fer dokha, fareb, jalan, irshya, gusse da koi thaa nahi reh janda.
 

reshmi_mutiyar

LITTLE KITTEN
Re: kudia de kudia da wiah ton vaaapne parents laie faraz.......................

agree wid u sis g
yeh i don't have a dad either so hard ho janda

and main vi thora sochdi kee je meri bhabi to be ne mere mom dee look after nah kiti and mere sass sahure vi kapte hoye:an gonna be hard

yes dear,, aapa dono same boat ch ,, as far as dads are,,, per ikk gallon mein lucky aa,, meri bhabi te bohut changi aa,, 1 paase mum hon doosre paase ohde dono putt bhukhe hon,, oh mum nu pehlaan dekhdi aa, kade v mathe vatt ni pondi,,


tuhade layee v wish kardi aa, ki tuhanu v idda di bhabi mile
 

pps309

Prime VIP
Re: kudia de kudia da wiah ton vaaapne parents laie faraz.......................

PP sis g nice thread banaya,

mein te ihhi kahoongi ki kuddiyan v maa peo di lookafter kardiyan aa, jad takk ohna de ghar ch rehndiyan aa, baad ch v karna chondiyan,, per sohre ghar diyan majboorian ch fass jaandiyan ne,, kyonki pehlaan ohna da faraz, viah to baad sohre ghar da hunda aa,
puttan to bahuaan mildiyan,, tuhade v veer honge, jihna diyan wives tuhade maa baap de sewa karangiyan jiss tarah tusi apne sohriyan di sewa karoge,,,,,,

matlab kehan da, jiss ghar cho dhee jaandi aa,, uthe bahu ondi v hai,,, hisaab barabar,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

tuhanu pata mere dad nahi aa, merian baahan ch damm tod de dad nu dekh ke mum 7 mahine DEEP COMA ch rahe, jado jaage te brain da memory part amygdala, thora damage c, jis naal mum di memory confuse ho jaandi aa, har 10-12 din baad oh sochde aa ki dad is still alive,, but he's not at home,,,

tuhanu ih iss karke dass di aa ki kehna chondi aa, ki i lookafter my mum 24/7 ohna nu shad nahi sakdi ,kite v jaa nahi sakdi,, weird attack ho jaanda aa,, dad nu aawaazan maran lag jaande aa, fir nervous breakdown,,,,last 2 weeks to she's been sick almost everyday,, I LOVE MY MUM,,

OHNA DE KARAN MEIN APNA VIAH V JHOOTH BOL KE 1 SAAL LATE KARWAA LIYA APNI ZID KARKE,, KI MEIN POST GRADUATION KARNI AA,, :cry :cry i dont ever wan2 leave my mum
sahi gal kitti aa.....

Waheguru bhali karan ge.......Utte wala sab dekhda....ohne sab da bhala karna.

Sabna Galla Samrath Suami, Sau kiyo Manno Visare
Kahe Nanak Mann Mere Sadda Raho Har Naale...
 

pps309

Prime VIP
Re: kudia de kudia da wiah ton vaaapne parents laie faraz.......................

agree wid u sis g
yeh i don't have a dad either so hard ho janda:n

and main vi thora sochdi kee je meri bhabi to be ne mere mom dee look after nah kiti and mere sass sahure vi kapte hoye:an gonna be hard......................
Aww........PP edda kidda gandi bhabi mil ju thonu....jad appa kisse da bura nahi karna te sada v kadde bura nahi hona.......
 

kudi_patole_wargi

Ki Zor Gareeba Da
bahut wadiya thread banaya aa gulabo:fu

@ reshu...jime tusi kehe ke jad gharo dhee jandi aa ta nuh aa jandi aa so hisab barabar but main apni example dindi aa mera ta koi brother nahin aa asi 3 sisters hi haan so sade ghare ta kise ne nahi auna n sometimes mainu mom dad di bahut fikar lagi rehndi aa ke kime hone aa n all...n u noe tusi ohna de naal reh ke eh sabh kuch realise nahin karde eh sabh veyah to baad hi realise hunda aa...n ramin nu hi lai lavo oh mere mom dad nu bahut pyar te izzat dinde aa but incase je kal nu ohna nu sadi lod pai gayi ta main ta ohna to aini dur baithi aa (hope u understand wut im trying 2 say)...baki sukhbir paaji ne sahi keha aa ehde te tera mera kuch ni hona chahida...baki je tusi aap change aa ta sare hi change aa je aap madde aa ta agla v madda ban janda aa
 
bahut wadiya thread banaya aa gulabo:fu

baki je tusi aap change aa ta sare hi change aa je aap madde aa ta agla v madda ban janda aa
sahi keha ji tusin parr ajj kal maade naal changa te changge naal maada v ho jaanda,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, last week ik news channel te ik delhi di khabar suni jiss vich parents diyan sirf do kudiyan sigiyan te donna ne hi apne husbands naal mill ke apne ei parents te property takeover karan layee case karta,,,,,,,,, hun ehnu dasso koi ki kahe
 
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