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Old 21-May-2015
Miss Happiness
Stop expecting these things from others

1. Stop expecting them to always do the right thing
Everybodyís different, from the genetic make-up in our DNA to the cultural and social beliefs. Expecting people to do the right thing is a bit unrealistic, because what may seem right for you isnít to them. The environment youíve been raised in imposes various psychological and cultural practices which differ to different people. So if feeding on a dog isnít right to you, donít expect that from your Asian workmate. Focus on your beliefs and morals.
2. Donít expect everyone to agree with you
We constantly feel comfortable when people around us agree with our thoughts and actions but this may not always be the case. Donít let anger or hurt get to you when your colleagues donít share the same sentiments that you hold and this is both pointless and harmful.

3. Stop expecting them to be perfect
Well itís a no brainer that no-oneís perfectand expecting this from people is bound to result in disappointment. Once you expect people to do certain things to perfection and they donít, try and understand that they are only human and they tried.Besides, they may be very comfortable with what they did and see it as their best.
4. Donít expect them to be mind-readers
Sometimes you may not be feeling okay and you may be having some emotional or mental turmoils. Use your words to express yourself because human beings are incapable of reading your mind. Remember, failing to communicate is one of the top factors that injures relationship.
5. Stop expecting them to pick us up after we fall
Everyone has their own struggles and just because someone isnít there to brush the dirt off your shoulders doesnít mean that they donít care. They could be facing much larger problems than yours.
6. Stop expecting them to always understand you
Donít try and explain yourself too hard to others, so long as you understand yourself, then the others donít really count. Your friends not Ďgettingí you doesnít make you any less of what you are.
7. Stop expecting them to treat you how you treat them
Weíd all love a perfect world but that is not the case. Some people would still treat you poorly even if you give them the royalty treatment and shower them with kindness. Be compassionate and understand that they may be lacking a true relationship with their self in the first place.
8. Stop expecting them to suddenly change their behavior
You canít change people and the sooner you realise that the easier itíll be for you. Trying to make people behave in certain ways or abide by certain norms would just make them fight back and pull you apart. Just accept people the way they are and shift your perspective. Change comes from within.
9. Stop expecting them to be the same person
You should also not expect them to be the same person they were a year ago. Growth is gradual and battles are won and lost each day. Love them just as they are and accept them even if they donít meet your standards.
10. Stop expecting them to have it all together
Sometimes life throws bombshells that not everyone handles in the same manner. Donít expect your friends to have it all together and try and understand that they are doing their best. Be compassionate and strive on strengthening your relationships.

Old 21-May-2015
Royal Singh
Re: Stop expecting these things from others

I don't have expectations from myself

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