sikh weddings banned during night

kudi_patole_wargi

Ki Zor Gareeba Da

• Jul 16, 2007

• #1

main kal news ch suneya ke hun delhi ch sardara de raat nu hon wale veyah te ban laya jana aa te oh na hi murga te na hi sharab serve kar sakde aa....mainu ta eh idea bahut stupid laga...tusi apne vichar daso is bare...

 

munda_wakhre_type_da

-- Kem da Gui --

• Jul 16, 2007

• #2

raaat nu reception hi hundia sardaaran di laanwan ta savere hi hundiyaa..


te jad ta wea ch daru murga na chale te ik ade di ladai naa howe tad tak wea da najra hi ni aunda yaar

 

SHauKeeN GaBRu

Chardi Kala

• Jul 16, 2007

• #3

Viah te din nu hi hunda ae...Parties raat nu hi hundia, din nu kar ke ki maza auna??
te tusi wrong news suni honi....

 

kudi_patole_wargi

Ki Zor Gareeba Da

• Jul 16, 2007

• #4

but u know guri kayi sardar veyah raat nu karde aa jai mala n all te saver nu fere lainde aa..oh kehnde ke sardara da veyah din ch hona chahida..eh raat wala system hindus da hai...n sharab te murge naal ehna nu ki..agle kol paise hai te ohne kharchna hi hai munde kudi de veyah te ...loka nu aivi dukh hoyi janda aa

 

munda_wakhre_type_da

-- Kem da Gui --

• Jul 16, 2007

• #5

hor ki...

bhabi ji tusi kaanu fikar laaya tusi taaa sahi time te karake welle hoge

 

kudi_patole_wargi

Ki Zor Gareeba Da

• Jul 16, 2007

• #6

chandigarh ch aje eho jehi koi scheme nahin aayi tu v kara ke vehla ho

 

Konvicted_Jatt

S@RP@NCH

• Jul 16, 2007

• #7

mainu nahi lagda k eh rule apply hovega delhi ch sardaran ne kade nahi man-na k daru murge ton bina ohna de viah hon....

 

pps309

Prime VIP

• Jul 17, 2007

• #8

jitthe sikhan ne sikhi de enne rule tode aa oh mere veer aa rule v tor daenge....................
Koi paida hon naal thore sikh banda oh ta apne karma naal te oss Sache Patshah di mehar naal banda.

 

..Desi..

You Can Hate Me Now

• Jul 17, 2007

• #9

raat nu tan yaar palti salti kardey hone

tey daru tey murgey tu bina gal ne bandee punjabiyan dey viah de



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Johal

ChArDi KaLaN

• Jul 17, 2007

• #10

viah te din ho hi hune chide han te party ratt nu.

baki daru bina te punjabian de viah te tan adeee bandee russ jane han.
ke daru nai pelaii

 

prinzdude

Member

• Jul 17, 2007

• #11

They do have a reason for that and i think atleast girls should be in favor of this.

http://www.iht.com/articles/ap/2007/07/14/asia/AS-GEN-India-Extravagant-Weddings.php

"The committee feels that ostentatious weddings are leading to increasing competition among families to outdo each other," Paramjit Singh Sarna, president of the Delhi Sikh Gurdwara Parbandhak Committee, said in the report.

"A lot of money is being wasted," he said.

The Sikh leaders said the deluxe wedding trend puts an unfair burden on brides' families, who traditionally pay for the parties.

"Our fight is against this exploitation by those who pose demands on the girl's family to organize elaborate weddings," the newspaper quoted the group's general secretary, Balbir Singh, as saying. "The ceremony should be simple."

 

prinzdude

Member

• Jul 17, 2007

• #12

Tussi zara aap socho, ikk horh laggi aa vadhiya ton vadhiya vyah karan di. Main samajh sakda haan, saareyan de dil 'ch hunda hai k vyah sab ton vadhiya hoye.

Lekin jadon kurri de ma peo karza chukk ke apni haisiyat ton wadh k kharcha karde ne ta oh v bada maada hai. Oh kayi saalan tak karza hi laahnde rehnde ne.

Female foeticide da Ikk eh v reason hai k kurriyan de vyah te kharcha zyada karna painda hai. Je assi ehna lavish weddings te kaboo pa sakiye taan eh saade vaaste hi nahi, society vaaste v changa hoyega.

Sikhism de vich koi v kamm bagair reason de nahi hunda, te eh ikk valid reason hai. SRM de anusar Vyah din de time, simple tareeke naal hone chahide ne te daaj dena ya mangna bilkul mana hai. Lekin assi eh kinna follow kitta hai ajj tak, eh assi hi jaande haan.

Rahi Sharab te chicken di gall, then it may come as a surprise for all of you, "Alcohol and non-veg* are banned in Sikhism"

 

smilly

VIP

• Jul 17, 2007

• #13

Vayaah taan din vich hi hona chahida hai .... Party bhavein raat nu hove....

And dear main te drink ni karda, Na maas khaanda haan......

Par pher vi eh kehna haan koi restriction honi chahidi jis da jo dil hai khaave... te serve kare..........

 

Pardesan Punjaban

Alone but Happy

• Jul 17, 2007

• #14

yup singapur te delhi even jalandhar ch vi kaie sardar raat noo viah karde

 

prinzdude

Member

• Jul 17, 2007

• #15

Party te vyah, do vakkh vakkh occasions ne.. Lekin koi sochhe, vyahvan te enna paiha paani di tarrah vaha dena, eh kitthe di akalmandi hai.. Je enne paihe da judicious use kitta jaave, ta eh community kitthe di kitthe pahunch jaave..

Main eh v mannda haan ke koi farak nahi paina. Oh es layi, kyon ke jinna ne eh rule banaan di koshish kitti hai (Sarna saab and party), oh aap esnu kinna follow karange, eh mainu pata hai..

Lekin, eh chhoti jihi gall kisse di samajh aa jaave taan es vichh saareyan da bhala hi aa.. This will be actually, a win- win situation for both families of bride and groom.. Munde vaale jo marji karde rehan, par, vyah taan simple hi hona chahida..

Bache paihe di FD kara ke nave jode de future vaaste rakkh do yaa garibaan 'ch vannd do, ohna diyan aseesan hi kamm aangiyan.. Sharaban peya ke taan jhagre hi hone aa, lokan ne kehna, falane de vyah te mera jhagra hoya, manhoos hi aa...

 

kudi_patole_wargi

Ki Zor Gareeba Da

• Jul 18, 2007

• #16

thx 4 more info maninder....but i wud say jehre kudi de parents jada kharcha nahin kar sakda ohnu nu munde waleya naal pehla hi gla clear kar laini chahidi aa..karza utha ke veyah karan de hak ch ta main v nahin aa...but jihna kol paisa hai oh ta sare cha pure kar sakde aa..n ehna nu ki takleef aa je sharab te meat serve hove ga.>d

 

pps309

Prime VIP

• Jul 18, 2007

• #17

kudi_patole_wargi said:

thx 4 more info maninder....but i wud say jehre kudi de parents jada kharcha nahin kar sakda ohnu nu munde waleya naal pehla hi gla clear kar laini chahidi aa..karza utha ke veyah karan de hak ch ta main v nahin aa...but jihna kol paisa hai oh ta sare cha pure kar sakde aa..n ehna nu ki takleef aa je sharab te meat serve hove ga.>d

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bhabiye problem ohna nu nahi aa.....problem eh aa...jad ik munde di reception te sharab te meat serve hunda...ohdi taur bandi au fukraa marda ke saade vyah te ta eh eh hoya.
Fer duja munda te osde ghar de kudi waleya nu dhakka karde aa ke sadi v rishtedara di ohji khatir honi chaeedi jimme falane de falane rishtedara ne kitti si......hun kudi wala ki kahe main nahi karni...main ta kudi kunwari rakhunga.............

why not munde wale aap sara kharcha chakkan, jo v karna munde wale aap karan? Why girl's side shud do? Ik ta apni kudi deyo utto di ghar lutva lo.....aa kitthe da insaf aa?

 

munda_wakhre_type_da

-- Kem da Gui --

• Jul 18, 2007

• #18

well said prinz dude te pps paaaji.. gt ur points..

 

munda_wakhre_type_da

-- Kem da Gui --

• Jul 18, 2007

• #19

pps309 said:

Ik ta apni kudi deyo utto di ghar lutva lo.....aa kitthe da insaf aa?

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sada dhana ta kenda hunda ke mainu hi kudi aleya de ghre chadd aaao te mera sara ghar lut lo bhaanwe par fer v koi ni mandi.. asli beinsaafi taaa aa hai
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Princess6863

Member

• Jul 18, 2007

• #20

well..yaar ban karan aali gal ni honi chaahidi..harek di apni apni choice aa..jisne jo karna kare..free country aa..apni marji naal hun banda viha di party v ni kar sakda..if u feel daru n non-veg is right in a sikh marriage then go ahead..apni apni marji aa..ek wari viha honda..oh v je poore shaunk naal na kita taan ki kitajehra kharcha kar sakda oh kare..but je munde aale kuri aaleyaan nu force karde ne .. that's wrong on their part..but je kuri wale tyaar ne then ohna uppar rok tok laun di ki zaroorat aa