Gabru_Gulab_Varga
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A guy at work seems quite stressed and secretive at times. So I took him out to lunch today. During lunch, this guy really opened up his whole life story to me, which I thought I might run by you folks as well. This work colleague of mine supposedly got married some three years ago. According to him, he and his wife were really happy for a year and a half, but then slowly things started to change and now their marriage is on the verge of crashing. My colleague doesn't want to live with his wife, but seems forced to as he has a son (whom he loves very dearly). Now just to complicate things, he started a relation with another women some 8 months ago. When I asked him what the problem in his marriage was, he just shrugged his shoulders and said "i don't know...things just aren't the same!"
The story above may be of an Australian gora, but the issue of divorce and marriage breakdowns is very common in our community too. So, what do you guys think about the whole situation? Why are so many marriages hitting the rocks a few years down the track in our community? What happens to all the lovey dovey stuff that we see before and just after the marriage? What hapens to the vows we take before the guru granth sahib ji?
For your curiousity, according to my colleague he had a semi-love marriage. He and his partner were introduced to one another through an aunt.
The story above may be of an Australian gora, but the issue of divorce and marriage breakdowns is very common in our community too. So, what do you guys think about the whole situation? Why are so many marriages hitting the rocks a few years down the track in our community? What happens to all the lovey dovey stuff that we see before and just after the marriage? What hapens to the vows we take before the guru granth sahib ji?
For your curiousity, according to my colleague he had a semi-love marriage. He and his partner were introduced to one another through an aunt.