How To Let Go Of Someone You Love

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Old 31-Mar-2011
How To Let Go Of Someone You Love

Everyone who suffered from an intense break up would find it hard to let go of someone whom they love. It is close to ripping off something which was a part of your body and mind. You may see your reflection in the thousand broken pieces of a mirror of illusion called ‘love’. When a relationship faces crisis, both people will suffer from cuts and bruises and they may feel that the planet earth is wobbling. Life is almost like an epic which is made with many short stories and novels. It shouldn’t be cut short and it has to move on. It is not healthy to get stuck with the memories of your romantic time with the same person all over again. It affects your mental and physical health and it is almost same as carrying corpses with you. Past is just a corpse and you should understand that it is gone, forever. So you have to get over it to start the next vibrating episode of your life. Read on the article to know about how to let go of someone you love.

Letting Go Of Someone You Love

Accept Your Limitations
It is hard to admit your failure in controlling your partner’s emotions but it is a fact that you couldn’t control whether other people want to stay in a relation with you. It doesn’t matter how smart, good, helpful and attractive you are. There are many other elements that lead people to a break up or divorce. The sooner you accept your fault or lack of control, the easier it can be to let go of a love affair.

Remember Good Times
You should remember the good things which you committed during your affair. This may sound contradictory when it gets compared to the previous advice but if you remember the good things you have done for her/him, you will not blame yourself for the break up and thus you would feel better. Every relationship has two sides just like a coin and you should be ready to face good and bad features of it. There are high possibilities for you to get affected by the love relationship because you are an essential part of that relationship. Even though relationships have plus and minus features, they should be in a balance for the smooth voyage of the relationship. When negatives in a relationship begin to blow out of proportions, the relationship fails. So it is important to understand that you are not solely responsible for your break up.

Time Heals All Wounds
If you really want to let go of someone you love, it is important to believe in the old saying “time will heal every wound’. Time is a great healer and it can heal many hurts you had in your mind. Even though you feel the pain of the loss in such an intense manner, you should understand that this grief is not permanent .After a few months, you will laugh and will come to back to your normal life. This sense of truth will save you from grief. There is a wise saying which goes “Even after seeing all these chaos, flowers flourish on earth’. Believe in it and you will be a happy person.

Go For A Counseling
If you share your sadness you will feel relieved. It is like clearing out the puss of a wound and applying a medicinal ointment on it. You can get a help of an objective counselor, pastor or psychologist to control your emotions. They can help you to get the big picture of life and the way mind works. They can erase the worried and frustrated state of mind and those counseling sessions can help you to let go of someone whom you loved.

Socialize And Start Something Fresh
The first thing you should avoid after a painful break up is sitting idle in home. You should go out every day and meet most of your good friends and talk. You don’t have to talk about your break up to everybody but you can share those bitter truths with your close friends. You should also start something new in your life. You can start learning some music instruments such as guitar, violin, key board or drums. It is also highly advisable to join a new gym where you can work out your body and keep yourself healthy. Branching out to a new zone of life can really help you to let go of someone whom you really loved

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