SehaJ
Troublemaker
"Four Wives in our lives"
There was a rich merchant who had 4 wives. He loved the 4th wife the
most and adorned her with rich robes and treated her to delicacies.
He took great care of her and gave her nothing but the best.
He also loved the 3rd wife very much. He's very proud of her and
always wanted to show off her to his friends. However, the merchant
is always in great fear that she might run away with some other men.
He too, loved his 2nd wife. She is a very considerate person, always
patient and in fact is the merchant's confidante. Whenever the
merchant faced some problems, he always turned to his 2nd wife and
she would always help him out and tide him through difficult times.
Now, the merchant's 1st wife is a very loyal partner and has made
great contributions in maintaining his wealth and business as well as
taking care of the household. However, the merchant did not love the
first wife and although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice
of her.
One day, the merchant fell ill. Before long, he knew that he was
going to die soon. He thought of his luxurious life and told
himself, "Now I have 4 wives with me. But when I die, I'll be alone.
How lonely I'll be!"
Thus, he asked the 4th wife, "I loved you most, endowed you with the
finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying,
will you follow me and keep me company?" "No way!" replied the 4th
wife and she walked away without another word. The answer cut like a
sharp knife right into the merchant's heart.
The sad merchant then asked the 3rd wife, "I have loved u so much for
all my life. Now that I'm dying, will u follow me and keep me
company? "No!" replied the 3rd wife. "Life is so good over here! I'm
going to remarry when you die!" The merchant's heart sank and turned
cold.
He then asked the 2nd wife, "I always turned to u for help and you've
always helped me out. Now I need ur help again. When I die, will you
follow me and keep me company?" "I'm sorry, I can't help u out this
time!" replied the 2nd wife. "At the very most, I can only send u to
ur grave." The answer came like a bolt of thunder and the merchant
was devastated.
Then a voice called out : "I'll leave with you. I'll follow you no
matter where you go." The merchant looked up and there was his first
wife. She was so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition.
Greatly grieved, the merchant said, "I should have taken much better
care of you while I could have!"
There was a rich merchant who had 4 wives. He loved the 4th wife the
most and adorned her with rich robes and treated her to delicacies.
He took great care of her and gave her nothing but the best.
He also loved the 3rd wife very much. He's very proud of her and
always wanted to show off her to his friends. However, the merchant
is always in great fear that she might run away with some other men.
He too, loved his 2nd wife. She is a very considerate person, always
patient and in fact is the merchant's confidante. Whenever the
merchant faced some problems, he always turned to his 2nd wife and
she would always help him out and tide him through difficult times.
Now, the merchant's 1st wife is a very loyal partner and has made
great contributions in maintaining his wealth and business as well as
taking care of the household. However, the merchant did not love the
first wife and although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice
of her.
One day, the merchant fell ill. Before long, he knew that he was
going to die soon. He thought of his luxurious life and told
himself, "Now I have 4 wives with me. But when I die, I'll be alone.
How lonely I'll be!"
Thus, he asked the 4th wife, "I loved you most, endowed you with the
finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying,
will you follow me and keep me company?" "No way!" replied the 4th
wife and she walked away without another word. The answer cut like a
sharp knife right into the merchant's heart.
The sad merchant then asked the 3rd wife, "I have loved u so much for
all my life. Now that I'm dying, will u follow me and keep me
company? "No!" replied the 3rd wife. "Life is so good over here! I'm
going to remarry when you die!" The merchant's heart sank and turned
cold.
He then asked the 2nd wife, "I always turned to u for help and you've
always helped me out. Now I need ur help again. When I die, will you
follow me and keep me company?" "I'm sorry, I can't help u out this
time!" replied the 2nd wife. "At the very most, I can only send u to
ur grave." The answer came like a bolt of thunder and the merchant
was devastated.
Then a voice called out : "I'll leave with you. I'll follow you no
matter where you go." The merchant looked up and there was his first
wife. She was so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition.
Greatly grieved, the merchant said, "I should have taken much better
care of you while I could have!"
Moral of the story:
Actually, we all have 4 wives in our lives
a. The 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort
We lavish in making it look good; it'll leave us when we die.
b. Our 3rd wife? our possessions, status and wealth.
When we die, they all go to others.
c. The 2nd wife is our family and friends. No matter how
Close they had been there for us when we're alive,
The furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.
d. The 1st wife is infect our soul, often neglected in our
pursuit of material, wealth and sensual pleasure.
****So cultivate & strengthen our soul now, rather than
to wait until we're on our deathbed.******
