arranage marraige ya love marraige?

arranage marraige ya love marraige?

  • arrange

    Votes: 19 52.8%
  • love

    Votes: 17 47.2%

  • Total voters
    36

arpita

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my personal choice : arranged...but

vyah ho jaave baaqi qismat te naseeb d gall hundi ae kadi arrange marriage chal jaandi kadi love.....i don't think it only depends on whether u da rishta arranged siga ya tussi love karke arrange karvaaya ae....to make a marriage work you need: love for each other, respect for each other, trust in each other, lots of patience, ability to compromise and sacrifice, lot of understanding, and a lot of maturity on top of LUCK jaani k naseeb jaani k qismat
bottom line is marriage koi v hove it requires a lot of hardwork to make it work....and koi set formula nahin k sirf arrange ya sirf love hi work karugi.,..as long as u have the qualities to work at it ur marriage will work no matter if it is love or arrange




no doubt tussi agle nu kinni changi tarha v jaande hovo marriage ton pehla real aadata da baachon pata lagda when u start living with the person 24/7 ae v sach ae tuhanu agle d kuch cheezan changiyan laggan giya kuch cheezan nahin changiya laggan giya....but onu v tuhadi kuch aadata gud laggan giya kuch nahin gud laggan giya enu hi ta kehnde ne compromise....and love is when you accept your life partner with their imperfections cuz no one is perfect na tussi te oho...ek duje layi respect hove ta pyar hove te aapde aap vich patience hove ta compromise karan d capability te flexibility hove te u will like and eventually love ur life partner ... no onw can fit the definition of perfect husband/wife? ohdi achhiya nu muhrre rakho dekho ki ki achaaiyya ne and keep those in mind always jo imperfections ne ona nu mwaaf karna sikho....marriage requires a lot of forgiveness... specially since in most cases, tuhade naal naal ohda v first time ae being married, he;s never been a husband before he;s gonna make a lot of mistakes before he can figure out exactly how to behave as a husband just like you're going to make a lot of mistakes as a wife before you figure out what his definition of an "achi biwi" is... you also have to keep in mind that pehn prah jo ekko ghar de hunde ekko ma ton janam litta hunda ekko ma ton sab kuch sikheya hunda ona d aadatan nahin mildiya te as husband and wife you both come from different families, different experiences, and different backgrounds....of course you will be different from each other of course there will be some things in him you dont like and some things in you he won't like... that's life... instead developing hatred learn how to deal with it...how to accept him and how to change a little so that he can accept you... hate karna saukha hunda sis g but living with hate is aukha....it's tough to love someone but living with love is easy....life is short make the best of it...don't let negative feelings get in the way of something that could be a wonderful relationship


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