daj de partha aaj de jamane ch.....................

Pardesan Punjaban

Alone but Happy
hi guys

wht do u think?

kee aaj kal de pare likhe samaj ch kee daaj dee parhta khtam ho gayie aa ?
kee sirf os ne apna roop change kar lia aaa?:kuto


aaj kal de pare likhe mundia de kee vichar aa.kee jadon ohna da wiah hovega ke oh daaj laina pasand karnge?

aaj kal de forum te hor baaki bolan ch te saare keh dinde kee assi daaj de sakhat khilaf haan..............per jadon wiah dee vaari aoundi ajje vi 99.9 %wiah vich daaj dita jaanda kise nah kise roop ch....and kayie tara dia dimand rakhia jaandia.................( rings,kade,giftts,in laws noo gifts..............and lost goes on..:bak :bak ......................)



plz saare jane apne views dasso is vaare
wht u think abt this subject?????????????????????????
mundia layie
kee tusi daaj lavoge apne wiah te?


kudia layie
kee tusi wiah karouna pasand karoge is tara dee family ch?????
 

reshmi_mutiyar

LITTLE KITTEN
kee sirf os ne apna roop change kar lia aaa?



sis g very good subject to make a thread about

ih sahi aa dear,,, mere hissaab naal daj ne roop change ker liya aa,,, karke mein uk ch viah bohut dekhdi aa,, hun viah de season shuru aa, bohut kujh lok dinde lainde aa, haale tak v,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,it's so sad,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,viah ni , ik buisness ban ke reh giya
 

SherDil™

naNOX9™ Hardcore
tusi sahi kehnde ke loki utto utto keh dinde vaeee daaj nahi dena chahida te ohi loki daaj lainde aa. main samjda ajjkal ta eh showoff karan da treeka aa.munde wale bhave na vi mangan kuri wale de dende aa vaee rishtedaar ki sochange.so mere hisaab naal kuri waleya naal etha pesh aana chahida ke ohna nu feel hove ke munde wale lalchi nahi aa.te oh hisaab naal jo dena de den kyonki ajj kal oh kehnde asi aapni kuri waste hi ta de rahe haan.so mango na je dinde aa ta ohna di marji.bas enna hi kehna te baki rahi meri gall ta.......







































































.............................main te mang ke Daaj laina kinna jada :mean
 
PP,

rings, kapreh, bracelet, chaini, etc zaroori cheeja hun jo viah di nishaani hundiyan hun. ehna nu daaj nahi keha ja sakda! par yeah, je cars, scooters, furniture, fridge, tc, etc thats something different.

tera question da answer: NO, its wrong to take & give dowry. Marriage is the union of a couple and their families not a business deal.
 

Pardesan Punjaban

Alone but Happy
PP,

rings, kapreh, bracelet, chaini, etc zaroori cheeja hun jo viah di nishaani hundiyan hun. ehna nu daaj nahi keha ja sakda! par yeah, je cars, scooters, furniture, fridge, tc, etc thats something different.

tera question da answer: NO, its wrong to take & give dowry. Marriage is the union of a couple and their families not a business deal.
nahi veer g
ring and kapre vegara je nishani de tor te diti jave
per aaj kal gold dee jaga diamond chounde saare.........................ih saaria show off dia galla aa mere khyal ch

jis tara assi agge jayie jaande ih rasama ghatan dee jaga vadi jaandia:n

milani vele ikale blanket vi dite jaa sakde
kapde 5000 suit dee jaga te 200 da vi ho sakda
aaj kal bahut dimands aa kion kee aaj friends naal gal kar rahi si and ohna ne vi kayie wiah dekhe jithe nahut jiada mangia jaanda
 

Pardesan Punjaban

Alone but Happy
tusi sahi kehnde ke loki utto utto keh dinde vaeee daaj nahi dena chahida te ohi loki daaj lainde aa. main samjda ajjkal ta eh showoff karan da treeka aa.munde wale bhave na vi mangan kuri wale de dende aa vaee rishtedaar ki sochange.so mere hisaab naal kuri waleya naal etha pesh aana chahida ke ohna nu feel hove ke munde wale lalchi nahi aa.te oh hisaab naal jo dena de den kyonki ajj kal oh kehnde asi aapni kuri waste hi ta de rahe haan.so mango na je dinde aa ta ohna di marji.bas enna hi kehna te baki rahi meri gall ta.......







































































.............................main te mang ke Daaj laina kinna jada :mean






lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

per saade ghat ch ulta aa

jine vi mundia de wiah hoye we didn't take any cent from them:w
as saare kahende munde vaale pahel kar sakde and thats da best time aa rokan laie

par jadon kudia dee vaar hundi de dinde although against aa
sochde kee loka ne kahena kee den de mare kahende aa


and sd thuda ques kudi vaale app de dinde
keh sakde ohna noo je inne hee paise aa kudi de naam karva dioo:an
 

Johal

ChArDi KaLaN
gud post.

mein te bilkul wi daj len de hak wich nai han. te na hi mein daj lena hai.


baki is nu bilkul khatam karna lai sanu sarian nu is de khilaff awaz utaune pawege. kyun ke some times awe hunda hai koi ladka daj nai wi lena chunda par phir wi kuri walle dhake nal kuj na kuj de dinde han. (i had face this problem in my cousins marriage). is lai pure samaj nu is da virood karna chida hai tan hi asi is ton chutkara pa sakde han
 
nahi veer g
ring and kapre vegara je nishani de tor te diti jave
per aaj kal gold dee jaga diamond chounde saare.........................ih saaria show off dia galla aa mere khyal ch

jis tara assi agge jayie jaande ih rasama ghatan dee jaga vadi jaandia:n

milani vele ikale blanket vi dite jaa sakde
kapde 5000 suit dee jaga te 200 da vi ho sakda
aaj kal bahut dimands aa kion kee aaj friends naal gal kar rahi si and ohna ne vi kayie wiah dekhe jithe nahut jiada mangia jaanda

diamonds kaun denda? mein tan kahi vi nahi diamond da veopaar dekheya england vich. te india kithe karna lokan ne? shahid ohi jehre baar jaan nu bhukhe hun te paniyan dheeyan nu ik passport bana ke daaj vich aap bahar nikal jande hun.

dekho! je tusi siyano ho, te fir bachola rakh ke viah tu pahela (even engagement tu pahela) sari gall khul kar lo duji party de naal ke ohna di ki demands hun. te je nahi pog di gall, fir fatti poch do. te kise changey insaan di talash jaari rakho.
 

Pardesan Punjaban

Alone but Happy
diamonds kaun denda? mein tan kahi vi nahi diamond da veopaar dekheya england vich. te india kithe karna lokan ne? shahid ohi jehre baar jaan nu bhukhe hun te paniyan dheeyan nu ik passport bana ke daaj vich aap bahar nikal jande hun.


dekho! je tusi siyano ho, te fir bachola rakh ke viah tu pahela (even engagement tu pahela) sari gall khul kar lo duji party de naal ke ohna di ki demands hun. te je nahi pog di gall, fir fatti poch do. te kise changey insaan di talash jaari rakho.
bahut lainde

vaase bari sianie gal kiti bhaji:hug

main te is tara hee karna je meri chalii:an

its not abt money its abt principal:an:w
nahi te 10000 or 20000 $$$$$$$$$ hee han:an
 

Pardesan Punjaban

Alone but Happy
gud post.

mein te bilkul wi daj len de hak wich nai han. te na hi mein daj lena hai.


baki is nu bilkul khatam karna lai sanu sarian nu is de khilaff awaz utaune pawege. kyun ke some times awe hunda hai koi ladka daj nai wi lena chunda par phir wi kuri walle dhake nal kuj na kuj de dinde han. (i had face this problem in my cousins marriage). is lai pure samaj nu is da virood karna chida hai tan hi asi is ton chutkara pa sakde han

thanks aa g

wadiya thinking aa:yes
je thude vaang saare munde ho jaan fer kee kahene:w

vaase mere surname aa so gal te sianie hee karni si:w

shied kudi vaale sochde hone den dee mare kahende kion kee munde vaale pahela nahi lainde vaad ch galla sanounde:gig
pahela hee clear kar dena chieda
 

SHauKeeN GaBRu

Chardi Kala
bhaaven munde aale kuchh na mangan...main te dekheya ajj kal kuri wale appe hi kinna kuchh apni marzi naal de dinde, bolde ne saddi kuri da ghar hai, kuri de ghar cheez jaa rahi hai, naale show v karna hunda society nu, assi apni kuri vaste ae kitta, o kitta, only apna status banaan vaste...:n

naale main te kuchh nahi mangunga...apna hi banana sab kuchh...main te dad kolon v kuchh nahi mangna, bahut kuchh deta ohna ne, hun apna banana sab kuchh :an
 
:star :star :star :star nice topic sahiba ji
per sahi rahoga ke nah daaj de ke kuri ghroun toro
teh nah daaj leh ke kuri ghar liyo.....
bakki daaj kyuon lehhan kudi de parents neh wee sarri umar apni mehnat nal kamiye
hun thuddi life hai rab neh 2 hatth ditte hai kamo teh kao

kisse de ditaayn wee kadi tidh bharda rabh de jihnnoh jo denna
per hun sabh dee dimmgaan ch ehhee gal howe taan hee kush ho sakda'''''''
per aksar hee mein eh aam suniya gal ethoun hee shru karde hai
eklee kuri hai 20 kille jameen ahundi hai ghar hai n blah blha
thanu hor kee chidda teh fer sarri family wallon munde nooh push kitta janda kee rishta etthe hee houn chidaa hi dekh ehnne jammen ahundi hai n alll

mainu samhj nhai ahundi kee life teh uhnna neh guzarni hai
jeh piasa hee wich aah gaya taan oh life da kee charm hai
[B kuri de gun dekhe nah kee pissa[/B]
jad pyar rahouga apis wich taan life wadhiya rahougeee pissa wadd howe jaan ghat kee fark pinda
 

Guest33

Elite
well partha da taan mainu pata ni...par daaaj dahej da ajjkal ik nava meaning hai jo apni khwaish poori nak ar sako kudi walian nu keh deo!!!

ajj kal de munde je chaun taan is nu jama khatam
kar sakde ne par uh kion karan...kionki asin mata pita de aagiakari haan asin uhna de against ni ja sakde...nale kion jayie afta all auna taan sab sade hi ghar hai...

well ih sab akhin dekhe da hi nateeja hai....2 examples...

"sada taan munda bahar pakka 20-20 lakh de risht aunde ne ji...and girl's family end up giving 12 lakh..."

"munde kol 20 kille jammen hai ji.....20 lakh cash te safari gaddi te baki gehna kapda is alag......"

so......kudi walian nu nahi dena chaida agla dinda kionki mangan walian de muh aine khulle ne te bhed chaal ch har koi mangda....

well ki kaha likhan nu taan essay likh sakdi haan......

te amrik di jo gal hai ki mudrian taan viah di nishani ne....
kaka ji masad , fufad , chache, taye , mame, dada, nana, bhai, jija...sab tole tole di mundri leke turde lagde ne ( sona Rs 10,000/tola).....ihna di ghar walian jyada ni sirf pure crepe te suit (Rs, 1500) te naal pure de duppatte(Rs.300-400) leke jandian ne te ghatto ghat ik rishtedari kudi walian nu 12-13,000 ch paindi hai..te minimum 10 aise rishtedar khush kite kudi waliann u tan ih nishanian badian mehngian payian....1 lakh 20 hajaar taan fajool da kharcha...fer ji sass nu set ....1-adhi nanad hove uhnu vi set .....bapu ji nu kada...vadda bhai uhnu v kada taan chaida hi hai....sass de 5 suit karde karde 2-3 lakh da kharcha fajool hai...te fer len wale de nakk heth cheej na aave te sari umar changa viah yaad rehnda hai.......viah di yaad ihna sab marterialistic cheejan naal nahi bande de milwartan te aao bhagat naal hundi hai...

main ni mandi ajj de jamane ch koi vi banda hou jo ih sab nahi bhalda....well main ik nu jandi haan bakian da pata ni.......
 

Pardesan Punjaban

Alone but Happy
:star :star :star :star nice topic sahiba ji
per sahi rahoga ke nah daaj de ke kuri ghroun toro
teh nah daaj leh ke kuri ghar liyo.....
bakki daaj kyuon lehhan kudi de parents neh wee sarri umar apni mehnat nal kamiye
hun thuddi life hai rab neh 2 hatth ditte hai kamo teh kao

kisse de ditaayn wee kadi tidh bharda rabh de jihnnoh jo denna
per hun sabh dee dimmgaan ch ehhee gal howe taan hee kush ho sakda'''''''
per aksar hee mein eh aam suniya gal ethoun hee shru karde hai
eklee kuri hai 20 kille jameen ahundi hai ghar hai n blah blha
thanu hor kee chidda teh fer sarri family wallon munde nooh push kitta janda kee rishta etthe hee houn chidaa hi dekh ehnne jammen ahundi hai n alll

mainu samhj nhai ahundi kee life teh uhnna neh guzarni hai
jeh piasa hee wich aah gaya taan oh life da kee charm hai
[B kuri de gun dekhe nah kee pissa[/b]
jad pyar rahouga apis wich taan life wadhiya rahougeee pissa wadd howe jaan ghat kee fark pinda

thanks for reply gull dee:hug

yeh am agree nah devo nah lavo

per mostly ghar de keh dinde kudi vaale ho ke dena paina aa:n

yeh maa baap ne paria,saanu bada kita saadi look after kiti kee oh enough nahi aa saara kujh karke jadon kudi kam karn jogi ho jaandi in laws de hee kam aoundi:an

and vichare je middle class noo belong karde aa te saara kujh loan lae ke saari umer ohi taran te reh jaande....................................
 

Pardesan Punjaban

Alone but Happy
well partha da taan mainu pata ni...par daaaj dahej da ajjkal ik nava meaning hai jo apni khwaish poori nak ar sako kudi walian nu keh deo!!!

ajj kal de munde je chaun taan is nu jama khatam
kar sakde ne par uh kion karan...kionki asin mata pita de aagiakari haan asin uhna de against ni ja sakde...nale kion jayie afta all auna taan sab sade hi ghar hai...

well ih sab akhin dekhe da hi nateeja hai....2 examples...

"sada taan munda bahar pakka 20-20 lakh de risht aunde ne ji...and girl's family end up giving 12 lakh..."

"munde kol 20 kille jammen hai ji.....20 lakh cash te safari gaddi te baki gehna kapda is alag......"

so......kudi walian nu nahi dena chaida agla dinda kionki mangan walian de muh aine khulle ne te bhed chaal ch har koi mangda....

well ki kaha likhan nu taan essay likh sakdi haan......

te amrik di jo gal hai ki mudrian taan viah di nishani ne....
kaka ji masad , fufad , chache, taye , mame, dada, nana, bhai, jija...sab tole tole di mundri leke turde lagde ne ( sona Rs 10,000/tola).....ihna di ghar walian jyada ni sirf pure crepe te suit (Rs, 1500) te naal pure de duppatte(Rs.300-400) leke jandian ne te ghatto ghat ik rishtedari kudi walian nu 12-13,000 ch paindi hai..te minimum 10 aise rishtedar khush kite kudi waliann u tan ih nishanian badian mehngian payian....1 lakh 20 hajaar taan fajool da kharcha...fer ji sass nu set ....1-adhi nanad hove uhnu vi set .....bapu ji nu kada...vadda bhai uhnu v kada taan chaida hi hai....sass de 5 suit karde karde 2-3 lakh da kharcha fajool hai...te fer len wale de nakk heth cheej na aave te sari umar changa viah yaad rehnda hai.......viah di yaad ihna sab marterialistic cheejan naal nahi bande de milwartan te aao bhagat naal hundi hai...

main ni mandi ajj de jamane ch koi vi banda hou jo ih sab nahi bhalda....well main ik nu jandi haan bakian da pata ni.......




agree wid u bhene kaafi bhed chaal hoyie payie aa

main do hor wiah dia galla sunia
daaj ne sirf roop hee change kita aa:y


yeh ghar da ik member 10000 ton jiada hee pai janda

kion kee suit or blamket ik vaar nahi 2-3 vaar dinde:gig
and oh kihra ik vaar dene hunde like is cermoney da aa tha cermoney da aa..:bak ................and uper dee palace de kharche vi kudia vaalia da:an
pata nahi hor vi kinia demands hundia:kuto

ithe goria da system theek aa 50% /50%:gig....................................




and in my opnion its not abt money
tusi ik vaar te kar devo gaye
per jina dee soach is tara dee aa mangan dee then u have to keep up wid them whole life:gsl

kion kee den da kam sirf wiah te hee khatam nahi ho jaanda:an
 

Guest33

Elite
yup its shud be 50-50...ajkal tan India ch rceptions a trend ja khatam hunda ja riha dubara!!! ih vi ik faltu da pshosha te kharcha si...
 

Konvicted_Jatt

S@RP@NCH
main tan kehna na daaj lao te na deo,,main daaj lain de haq ch nhi haan te na hee lavanga,,,rab ne jo v ditta hai os naal santusht haan,,,,
main eh v dekhiya k loki daaj lainde nhi par dinde jaroor ne,,j munde wale na karan tan kehnde ne k assi taan apni kuri nu dean lagge haan,,, j kar assi daaj lainde haan tan sdaa layee apne sahoriya de karzayee ho jande haan,,, gal-gal te kuri kehndi hai k eh tan mere maapiya ne ditta hai tuhade kol kee c blah-blah,,
so na daaj deo te na daaj lao,,,,
 

Pardesan Punjaban

Alone but Happy
yup agree tusi sianie gal kiti ronny:gig

saade ghar ch assi kpie nahi layie da
pahela hee saaf saaf keh dayie da:an

je jor paa ke kaho kudi vaale nahi dinde:an
je opero opero kaho fer te ohna ne dena hee aa.........
 
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