help me about this dilemma

Yaar Punjabi

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Sat Siri Akaal

I have a job interview coming up. It is for a nursing assistant position in a nursing home working with old people. I wear a dastaar and beard everyday. My mom says i should take it off for the interview. I plan on taking amrit in the future and over all i dont want to abandon my identity or faith. I know God is the only provider so i am hoping for the best. I would like to know what have other have done in the same situation or people's opinions on what i should do
 
B4 removing ur turban just for a minute remember shaeedi of 4 sahebzade, and remeber father of four sons who gave dere life just coz of us that we can tie turban with proud. There are 100000 of 1000000s singh who died for honor and respect of sikhi.
Wear a turban. And say DHAN DHAN GURU NANAK DEV JI. DHAN DHAN GURU GOBIND SINGH JI. DHAN DHAN BABA DEEP SINGH JI ang sang sahai reho and kirpa kareo. Den gib ur interview
 

HSKukal

Elite
u r not the first one to get a job or go for an interview .....
i have also worked in big firms in india, UAE, Australia and seriously am telling u i never faced any issue due to my dastar and beard instead ppl respect me.....

I am really sorry but am disappointed with ur mom .... wats up with todays parents ....

baki am not worth to tell u anything .... sorry if i hurt anyone ...
wahe guru thwanu sadbudhi dehwe ....
 
no disrespect to your mom!! but in adrass oh vi maava si..jina ne bachiya de totte kara ditteh!! par sikhi ni chaaddi!!

I want to take amrit!! par mein bohot weak einsaan hain! Mere wich bohot kamjooriya ne!! par mein guru da larrh phar liya hai!! holi holi aapni kamjoor maatt Guru Granth Sahib de charnaa wich rakh ke Guru da putt baan jaana. I have started growing my hair/beard!

Veer kesh katal na kar!! fikar na kar...agar tu guru da sacha putt hain!! ta oh aape hi madaad karo gah :)
 

pps309

Prime VIP
I am not sure, what is expected of the candidate in such interviews.........but My Personal Physician in US is a turbaned Sikh and he is employed at Kaiser Permanante (very big chain of hospitals in California, USA).

You can wear a gol dumalla or short turban, it will cover your hair and that is actually good as a hygiene concern :)
As far as facial hair is concerned, you can tie your beard or use gel etc.

I am working as a software engineer and when I went for my interview I was in gol dastar with open beard. I still go to work in 7.5 meter length dastar and open beard, since it is not a concern in my job.

Rest, ask this question from yourself and find answer yourself. Guru Maharaj mehar kare and you make right deciscion.
 

pps309

Prime VIP
My personal opinion for you is Go in Dastar, be yourself.
If not this, you will get another interview chance somewhere else. On the contrary if you loose your Rehat and join this job then you might not get chance to maintain your rehat again; b'coz you will never be sure whether facility allows you to continue with turban & beard, or not.
 

gill_di_dunalli

veeran naal sardari
never compromise with ur faith
thats what our guru ji told us
I personally would have kicked the job if they want me to cut my hair for the same

and btw u r not yet ready for KHANDE DI PAHUL ,
becoz u r still in duchitti of whether u should cut ur hair or not
remember rehat is most important in KHANDE DI PAHUL

SIR JAAVE TAN JAAVE
TERA SIKHI SIDAK NA JAAVE
 

Mandeep Kaur Guraya

MAIN JATTI PUNJAB DI ..
see tusi ohh karo jo tuhada man karda hai...but jo v decision leya us te baad ch pachhtayeyo na...mera suggestion hai ki tusi jive ho oven hi jayo interview den..means in dastaar n beard....je Rabb ne tuhade layee eh job sochi hai tan chahe kujh v ho jave eh job tuhanu hi milegi...n je tuhadi kismat ch job na hoyee tan bhaven safa chat ho ke jayo, bina kismat ton ohh v nahi milni...so be urself n kick the interview je job mili tan bahut bahut vadhayee tuhanu..je na mili tan definitly Rabb ne tuhade layee kujh is ton v vadhiya socheya hona hai..kyun ki Rabb jo karda hai theek karda hai n saadi bhalayee layee karda hai :pr :pr
baaki i wont say anything abt ur mom..kyun ki har ghar diyaan apniyan majburiaan n apne halat hunde ne...par ik gall yaad rakheyo je galti naal tuhanu dastaar chhad ke v job na mili tan bahut jyada pachhtawa hoyega..so better ki dastaar pahanke hi chance lawo..baaki Rabb rakhaa
 
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