Do you agree with this act ??

Yaar Punjabi

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ਇਹ ਜੋ ਸਿਖਾਂ ਦਾ ਅਨੰਦੁ ਮੈਰਿੱਜ ਆਕਟ ਪਾਸ ਹੋਇਆ ਹੈ ਓਸ ਵਿਚ ਇਹ ਤਲਾਕ ਵਾਲਾ ਕਾਂਨੂੰਨ ਪਾਸ ਕੀਤਾ ਗਯਾ ਹੈ ਦੋਸਤੋ ਆਪ ਜੀ ਦੇ ਕੀ ਵਿਚਾਰ ਹਨ ਏਸ ਬਾਰੇ comment ਰਹੀ ਭੇਜੋ
 
Jab bhi dekho..aurat...auraat...auraat...auraat da eh hakh...auraat da oh hakh...nah aadmi gadeh ho gaye???..kutteh ho gaye??...why everything has to be now these days battle between the sexes? Eina femenist auraata da ronna nahi mukhdaa. Kutteh nu eh hakh dawaa dehngeh...par bande nu nahi.
Here are some facts.
95% of the criminals, rapists, murders come from fatherless homes.
Majority of the kids coming out of fatherless home are dysfuntional, very less educated. Dont have a role model in their life. Alcohol & drug abusers.
Majority of the kids coming out of fatherless homes end up having divorces. They dont understand relationship at all.

Feminism has completly messed up the society.
Hanji! I completly agree with this act. Guru Granth Sahib...Guru ka vajeer (granthi) taras karke non-amridhari da viyaah karwaa dehnde ne...par eh gurmat mariyada anusaar nahi. I laugh when the granthi singh say...jhore da viyaah gurumat anusaar ho gaya hai. Honestly agar gurumat anusaar hoya ta...both couple should be gursikh...amritdhari...period. I never heard in my life...divorce between gursikh couple/family.....majority of the divorces are between non-gurusikh couples. Its a fact.
Jinna ne guru di pehla aagiyaa hi nahi maani...guru ke singh/singhani hi nahi taiyaar hoye...oh sikh hi nahi hai...period.

ShejDhari da matlab hai...shej de wich tur paya...has started his/her jounrey to become Amritdhari..ohna ne kadi kase nahi katal kare. Are doing path everyday..volunteering at local temple. par ajeh pure gurusikh nahi hoye..but are slowly forming into sikhism.

Jinne vi aaj tak non-gurusikhs da vaiyaa hoya..I am sorry to say...gurumat anusaar nahi hoya. Bus Guru te Guru de vajeer ne taras karke tuhada vaiyaa kar ditta...par gurumat anusaar nahi hoya.

Har ek marriage wich you have to do the following things...regardless tusi jine marrji vaiyaa kar va lavo. bhave 10 war vaiyaa kar va lavo...if you dont have a strong character and the following things...you marriage will never be successful.
1. Responsibility
2. committment
3. Be supportive.
4. understanding
5. compromise
6 love/affection

Sikhi is all about "hukam"
Hukam Manniyeh Hove Parvaan Ta Khasmeh Ka Mehal Pai_Si

In Anand Marriage act.. " No Divorce"

Har Ek Risteh Da Majak Baniyai Jande ne.

Agar har koi gurusikh hove gah..pajh paiyaara da hukaam maaneh gah..95% of the problem in marriage will disappear.
1. adultry, cheating, unfaithful partner
2. no alcohol, drugs, tobacco
3. stay attached to good people..and good company of other gurusikhs (promote healthy relationships/no abusive partners)
4. honest living..kirat karni..vandh shakna...
5. no meat/or unhealthy diet that promote Kaam/Kroth and other vaikaars in your mind.

Whats left love and affection? if the couple is made up of two good people...love and affection will definately come along.
 

Dhillon

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divorce the provision na rakhan, par je thalle wale points vichon koi prove hunda ta viah khatam (anulled) kar den. problem solved :w

1. adultry, cheating, unfaithful partner
2. no alcohol, drugs, tobacco
3. stay attached to good people..and good company of other gurusikhs (promote healthy relationships/no abusive partners)
4. honest living..kirat karni..vandh shakna...
5. no meat/or unhealthy diet that promote Kaam/Kroth and other vaikaars in your mind.
 
Oh Pandit Ji Wala Joke Yaad hai...( no offense to our Hindu Veers)
Ek Pandit Ji Shaadi Karvaun gaya. Shayeed Pandit Ji Thaakiyaa Hoya Si...
7 pheeriya di jhaaga 3 pheeriya wich hi shaadi di ceramony complete kar ditti.
Mundeh ta baap kehnda...pandit ji..phereeh sirf 3 hoye ne..
Pandji ji kehnde...bhai je agli ne basna...ta 3 wich bas jayo...je nahi basnaa..ta 7 wich bhi nahi basna..
Putting the religion aside..Jis ne eis risteh wich aapne aap nu form (dhaal Liya) kar liya....ushdi marriage sucessful hai. Jinneh kadi aapne aap nu change hi nahi karna...jinneh marji viyaah karwaa laveh..juttiyaa hi khaarkan giya
 

pps309

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Its irony to see this discussion, Sikhs were first asking for Anand Karaj. Now its on the way, they are looking for divorce clauses.....lol.

Why not first look for the marriage clauses????
Anand Karaj as originally must be between two GurSikhs, no dowry, no surname changes, no caste distinction, no alcohol/drugs, no adultery etc.
Do we really fulfill the Gursikh condition to undergo Anand Karaj?
Do you still believe marriages in our Sikh houses are Anand Karaj or are we just fooling ourselves?

Anand Karaj is the marriage ceremony of two Gursikhs who will be one soul living life on the path of Guru and GurSikhi. If two bodies have same goal and same love they don't need to be separated.

Yes, if one of them leave this path, Anand Karaj is automatically annulled.
 

Mahaj

YodhaFakeeR
i think ...sikhs shld keep marriage more as a social custom than a religious custom ......i guess spirituality doesnt has much to do with marriage ....
nalle talak kitte ajj de ho rahe aa...manu umeed aa k guru sahib de vele v taalak hunde hoonge ..(kise di teenvi ksie naal bhajj gayi ) ..and may be sache darbaar ch ehna de fainsle v hunde rahe hoon ...
 

pps309

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^^ I don't think that this marriage Act is for spiritual purpose. It is more for the purpose of being classified as Sikhs on Marriage Certificate.
 
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